My Fiancé's Uncle is Obsessed With Me!
"You're holding the chisel like a weapon. Like you're fighting the stone. But stone doesn't fight back. It simply is. You have to find the form inside it, the shape that already exists, and release it. Not force it. Release it."
I stared at my hands, at the white-knuckled grip that had become habitual, and realized he was right. I was approaching the work with the same aggression I brought to business negotiations, the same determination to conquer and control. But stone wasn't a competitor. It was a collaborator, waiting for me to listen rather than command.
"How do you know this?" I asked, turning to look at him.