Ugh, being ignored and treated like you don't matter is the worst. I've been there—someone acting like you're invisible or barely worth their time. It could mean a few things: maybe they're emotionally checked out, trying to send a 'soft rejection,' or just terrible at communication. But honestly? Their behavior says more about them than you. If they're avoidant or playing games, that's immaturity on their part. I'd focus less on decoding their motives and more on whether this dynamic serves you. Life's too short to beg for basic respect.
Sometimes, people pull away because they're dealing with their own mess—stress, insecurity, whatever. But consistent dismissal? That's a choice. I learned the hard way that chasing someone's attention only drains you. Shift energy toward people who reciprocate. If this person matters, a direct 'Hey, I noticed distance—what’s up?' might clarify things. But if they shrug it off? Their loss. You deserve someone who matches your effort.