I've seen a few takes on this trope, mostly in werewolf romances, and honestly, the sheer amount of politics involved is exhausting just to read about. Your daughter isn't just changing diapers; she's basically a walking political target. Every interaction with that pup is under a microscope by the pack, judging if she's 'worthy' of raising the heir. One wrong step, like showing what they see as too much human tenderness or not enough dominance, could be spun as weakness. The alpha's enemies will absolutely see the child as leverage, so her entire life becomes about hyper-vigilance. Plus, the pup itself will start exhibiting alpha-level instincts way before it can talk—defiance, territoriality, the works. It's a power struggle from the cradle, and she's not the top of that hierarchy.
And then there's the isolation. The pack might resent an 'outsider' in such a pivotal role, leaving her with no real allies except maybe the alpha, whose duties pull him away constantly. She's raising a future leader without the traditional pack support system a born-werewolf mother would have. The emotional toll of loving a child destined for a life of brutal leadership, knowing you can't fully shield them, is its own quiet heartbreak. The physical danger is obvious, but that constant, low-grade social warfare is what really wears a person down.