Reading that question hit me like a ton of bricks—because I’ve been there. Ten years is a lifetime when you pour your heart into something, whether it’s a relationship, a fandom, or even a creative project. The alpha, whether it’s a person, a game series, or a beloved show, can feel like the center of your world. But sometimes, the magic fades. Maybe the writing got lazy (looking at you, later seasons of 'Supernatural'), or the developers prioritized profits over passion (cough, certain MMOs). It’s not that the alpha wasn’t worth your time initially; it’s that it stopped growing with you. Nostalgia’s a powerful thing, but it shouldn’t chain you to something that no longer sparks joy.
I think the real grief comes from realizing you loved the idea of it more than the reality. Like re-reading a favorite book from childhood and cringing at the plot holes. It doesn’t erase the happiness it once gave you, but it’s okay to mourn and move on. Maybe the alpha didn’t deserve your decade—but you deserve what comes next.