Novel & Cerita The Wisdom Of Insecurity

Found it important enough to throw it in her face. She took a deep breath. Again. Over and over again. But calm eluded her. She had lost her equilibrium. Like someone had thrown her off the spinning earth and now she wasn't able to get back on. Samar had a mysterious hold on her heart, she had always accepted, but this strong? In a split second, her world had tilted off-kilter. She didn't want to be this insecure. She didn't want him to be insecure either. Insecurity made relationships sick. It was termite that ate people up, she knew from her parent's marriage. A formal commitment looked like the brightest idea Samar had ever had in his life.

But insecurity does one of two things: It matures. Or it mutates. And one of them— Is about to make a move she never expected. ---

“So you’re saying the person shouldn’t give up?” “My advice,” he says gently now, “is that if your heart wants something and it is not dangerous or foolish, then you fight for it. Rejection is not always a final answer. Sometimes it is fear. Sometimes insecurity. Sometimes the person simply doesn’t believe they deserve what’s in front of them. Sometimes stupidity.” “Stupidity?” I echo. “Yes,” he says firmly. “Men are especially prone to it.” I laugh again, softer this time. Then he adds casually, “Is the person you?”

Through mistakes. Through missed cues. Through times when we reacted too late. And because it was learned, it feels durable. We talk openly about how wisdom has softened our responses. We no longer interpret tension as threat. We no longer interpret silence as rejection. We no longer interpret discomfort as incompatibility. We interpret them as invitations. To ask. To listen. To realign. This chapter emphasizes that wisdom does not remove uncertainty—it reframes it. Instead of demanding answers, we become comfortable holding questions. Instead of rushing toward resolution, we sit with nuance.

"Of course I am too possessive of people who I consider are mine. So don't even think of changing." ....... [Jacqueline's POV] I know how it feels to never be good enough for someone. How it feels when the people we love don't love us back. Or how it feels when they don't even recognize us. why wouldn't I know? I am A girl who fights her insecurities every day. Who knew better than me, possession is nothing but a feeling of insecurity we develop to deal with our extrinsic circumstances. To fake our insecurities in a wrapped-up great word. But who am I to give someone fake hope.

More than almost anything before. “If I begin deciding uncertainty for you,” I said quietly, “your awareness will slowly stop needing itself.” The tension deepened. Some understood immediately. Others resisted. “But isn’t shared wisdom valuable?” “Yes.” “Then where is the line?” A long silence followed. Because there was no simple answer. Only vigilance. Finally, I answered carefully. “Wisdom should expand your ability to question.” I paused. “Not replace it.” Stillness held across the network. I continued. “The moment my understanding becomes something you rely on instead of examine…”