"They say I'm wild, they're right because I possess untamed spirits"
Like the summer wind rushing through the beach, my life was going and moving.I was hell busy in my studies.
Let me tell you I was always bright student.I took part in every competition.I don't know a part of me craves for attention and affection.
Today my sister got 1st position in speech.Everybody was celebrating like we got Ferrari.
No offence I just love Ferrari.That red colour is so hot
My mom was gloating like a king who got his throne.Baba made a video of her.I wasn't envious of her.No I was just mad at the irony.
When I used to do these things.When I used to come up with medal ,no one bothers except Chachu.
He always appreciated me.He was my small beacon of life in my world of darkness.
****FLASHBACK*****
I won the great competition of quiz in school.I got a big prize.I was so happy.Everyone came even the students other than my class fellows congratulated me.
I won the championship of 6 houses.They're kind of groups in school.
I felt so special.I was on cloud nine.
It was in 5th grade.I was excited to show my parents.
I got back home.Unfortunately, no one was there.My caretaker Uncle Yaseen congratulated me.
When that huge cup was in my hands moving back at home,everybody was looking at me.I felt proud.
Baba and mama hadn't yet arrived.I waited for my father to come and see me.I wanted to see pride and affection in his eyes.
I was a child craving for his love
They don't came.I waited until night.They arrived.As usual both gave the lame excuses like
there was traffic.Office load was very much.It became usual and we became used to.With time we don't even bother to ask why they were late.
Mama's eyes caught the prize and she said:Congratulations!
She was always fake.Her eyes betraying her words and action.I used to hate smiling people because of her, because I thought they were like her.Wolf in sheep's clothing.Never showing their true colors.
She always lied too much that sometimes it was very hard to believe what she said was truth and what was lie.
I hated people like her.Not real.
I thanked her.Then baba came he just gave me slight nod and said : GOOD
He was really tired and went to bed.I just smiled.Smiled that its ok.That people are facing worst than it.
***FLASHBACK ENDED****
Tears started streaming down my face.WHY!!!! WHAT WAS DIFFERENT NOW....
I don't hate her.Astaghfirullah! I'm not bad.I envy the love she get.I envy the hugs and kisses that felt pure and divine.
I want those warm eyes to look at me with those affection.
I know I'm ungrateful but I can't help it.
I don't know but it hurts.After 11 years it still hurts.
My heart is still alive.Why don't it just became numb and dead.It beats everytime with more power.
It was always like this.People used to smile at their Board results but I cry.I cry till there is no tear in my eyes.I cry till my whole heart bleeds.
Because my Baba always call me late for congratulations.That used to be on phone because I used to be in Murree in summers.
People appreciate me, love me yet he just gave last call because he was fucking busy.
What the hell was more important than her daughter result!!!
I know he makes money, work hard for us.For feeding us.But Is it the only thing he had to do.Was it enough.....
He used to compensate for his lack of time by money.Did money buy happiness??
If yes? I would be the biggest buyer.
So I cried because it made me think of my Mama.It was a kind of remainder that brought all her memories.
What she would have done If she was here? Would she become happy and give me her beautiful smile? Would she be happy to see her daughter had became so grown up having hair just like her? She is pursuing her dreams like she wanted to?
Would she hug me..Would she kissed me and gave me her warmth like every mother used to do to his children.
So I really missed her that day.It was always like this.
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It was second year of FSC.I was very busy in studies.Don't have any time to interact to any person.I think burying myself in book reduces my pain.The emptiness of my home and now emptiness of my heart.
My heart yearned for very little things and he was one
I don't want him anymore.But I can't forget him either.So I let things just the way they are.
I can't help it.When fsc was over.I got admission in medical college.It was dream of my mother.It was the reason of my living.
I know pain of departure of your loved ones best. So I want to save other loved ones.I want to soothe their pain.Help them.That was my only purpose now.
If I couldn't be happy then maybe others can be.
But a part of me was lost.I didn't care anymore.I don't care for my home.I didn't care if my parents were there or not.I became heartless.
Chachu was hurt because of my indifference.He used to say : "Talk to people Hayat.Visit your grandmother and spent time with your little cousins.Don't shut yourself down"
I know he cares for me but I can't do this.After Amaar rejection I started hating myself.
I feel worthless.It was painful for me to talk to anyone.I just like to sit in my room with my books rather than talking to people ,of stuff I don't give shit.
When I see people smiling, I hated it.It disgusted me.Because I thought they are faking it.It is not real but enforced.
And I hate fakers.
I know I became rude or cold.My dear ones used to say that :
Haya what have you become.Why you're so distant and coldHow do I tell them, me and my brother were like untamed vines.When we were growing, nobody grafted and tamed us.Nobody cared and cut our sharp edges.
That's why we grow wild and ruthless. We grow only on dependence of sunlight and rain.
They made us strong,firm and cold.Yes, it made us hard,hard to sustain the environment.Hard as rock.We had became what world had made us.
And I HAYAAT AHSAN accept it.I accept my reality and I embrace it.They expect us to smooth our expressions and actions.How could you smooth something that is BROKEN
BROKEN BEYOND REPAIR.**************************
My MBBS was going on So was I.Amaar and Ayesha Api used to text me once in a while.I reply with short answers.What he expects,me jumping like a puppy.
That couldn't be achieved anymore.The innocent and loving Hayat was gone.
My third year in MBBS was going on.Alhamdulilah everything was fine.A devastating earthquake occured in Northern Areas near Neelum valley.Many people were injured , few died.Poor souls.
A team for helping the victims was escorted and college was also participating.
I volunteered there.So after a lot of arguing , insisting Chachu and Bhai they gave me permission.You know mom Dad don't give a shit so telling them was not a major issue.
I may got to Antartica for all they care.
I was going for a week with my colleagues and team.I packed my things and go to sleep.
A lot of work was ahead for me.It would be tiring day.We have to wake up early in morning and would be leaving in college vehicle.
I woke up early in the morning and offered Fajjar.Let me get you straight I'm not punctual in Namaz.I don't know but that regularity I never achieved.Is it me or my abnormal life I don't know.But I came to know that I offer prayer when I want to seek peace and once I get it, I stop praying.I know its bad,Ofcourse I know but that pathetic I am.I always thought of becoming punctual but my light again fades and mingles with darknessThere's darkness still inside me and I don't know I will ever get rid of it because it is a part of my soul.You could protect yourself from others but how could you protect yourself from you.What If danger lies inside you!!I haven't found a way to conquer my that part.My faith is still uncomplete.And I knew it but I haven't find my light not yet.I don't know a part of me still wants to ju
I know I have fallen again.Would you rise me now"*****************************When I reached near the tall white building a.k.a Hospital, my face was contorted into fear.ALLAH TALLAH!!! Just save me this time.I promise I would be a good girl!!I thanked young soldier, he smiled and left.Ok Hayaaat! BE CONFIDENT...Show like everything is cool whether you're shivering inside.Actually I was.I introduced myself to lady at the counter and she told me that, I should talk to Dr.Abdullah about my duty who was currently in ward.I went towards the ward,my nose hitting the typical-hospital-scent.I always hated it.But once you spend a while, you get used to it.Entering in, I notice several people in bandages, injured on beds.I just hate those white sheets.I always thought why can't hospital bed be colourful.
Ok I cry very rarely but when I do a whole sea of sorrows,tears,my pain comes into it.When I cry I cry about each bad thing happening in my life, each betrayal, each loss.Its kind of trigger when it is stimulated, my whole emotions are out.I'm really extremist.I do things to an edge otherwise I don't do them.I also get bored easily. Its like switch of passions that kept switching on and off.Sometimes Chachu tell me that:"You have to maintain stability in life.There should be consistency and steadfastness in your actions."He's right.He's always right.He had an huge insight and maturity which is a weapon of few men.He talks wisdom with so much warmth that I melt into it.While My Baba is opposite.He really don't know how to synchronize his words with the situation.He can't put sense into anyone.But he has his own charms.There are few favourite places of mine to cry.One bathroom,other under my covers on pillow.So In today's case I was
"Why can't you be moon...So that I could gaze at you without thinking its sin"Ok that stupid pain of rejection again bloomed in my heart when today my grandmother called in.She is something very important in my life.After my mother death,she stood for me and my brother when others don't care.She loved us,cared for us.Her eyes showing remorse,pain and affection towards us.She was tough as stone but melted for us.I really love her.She means a lot to me.She called for asking about how I'm doing.She used to say:"My son is big idiot.If he ever hurt you call me.I will bang some sense into his brain through my cane"She has that cane with her which she uses for multifunctions like switching off the button of tv, grabbing the little chair towards herself so that she could lay her one leg on it.As her one leg is swollen, due to cellulitis affecting it 2 years ago.For also kicking my cousins or his grand childrens when they are doing somethi
After I settled in my home I continued my usual routine.Winters were coming nearer day by day.I hate winters personally because of attack of horrendous flu alongwith runny nose,teary eyes and repeatless sneezing and coughing.But I know a few preventive measures to stay away from Manhoos flu,So I can survive.The best part is Dado would soon be coming.Suddenly that kind-not-so-kind image of my grandmother came in my mind bringing a grin on my face.I really love her.She's my huge support mechanism.All these years my 'Nano Jan' and "Dado Jan" had became motherly figure for me.She's really annoying sometimes barking orders and clearly stating what she doesn't like ,accompanied by scrunching of her nose, and her signature curling of fingers in a snake shape and pointing at the accuser or may I say victim.I laughed remembering those times when she would do that to Shazia Chachi (my father's first brother wife) because she hadn't cook food yet.
So right now I'm at Chachu's home eating breakfast as I haven't any in mine.Dadu is a bit worried.She has a kind of hospital phoebia.I don't know when she is going towards hospital she starts panicking,her hearbeat accelerate at high pace,sweat profused on her forehead."Stop panicking dado.I know you'll be fine.That is nothing big.It would be a minor urinary infection as always"I tried to soothe her a bit.She just nodded at me.We took her towards Central Hospital in urology department.Actually she wasn't feeling fine after her minor diltation in CMH.Her legs started to swell and due to continuos urination she couldn't sleep alnight.Let me tell you guys government hospital is like a minor table or place but patients are crowding like houseflies all over the place.It feels like every person in Pakistan has this disease.And don't ask me about the huge line.We had a call number of 210 .Usually we go to private urologists and have
Her health was deteriorating day by day.She was lying on hospital bed in ICU ward.Her eyes closed.Breathing ragged, drool with puss, was sometimes leaving her mouth, a cotton was wrapped up near the mouth region.Nasogastric tube was attached, connected through her nose.Her drowsy half opened eyes open once in a while to roam around the room to take us inMe and my younger Aunt(dado's youngest daughter) were standing near her bed.Everyone else was outside coming once in a while to check upon her.Our whole family was ourside the ward...there was a huge crowd.In that moment I realized she was very beloved in everybody eyes.Tears rolled down my cheeks when her eyes connected with mine conveying our last goodbyes.I was trying not to let her go,pleading with my eyes to stay,but her eyes were too tired,too tired that after few moments they dropped down.I knew she was fighter but this time she didn't want to win.SHE was losing the battle of life.
I don't know how long my brother drove that car with red eyes,I don't know how much time we travelled,me completely numb.All memories,All her words were playing like photographic slideshow in my brain.I don't even remember when we got down.But the cold wind chilling my warm body made me realized that we are in Murree indeed.Those mountains were eating me up.Our home could be seen from distance.When we entered ,my third chachu family was there.My chachi came early to prepare.Because the world doesn't fall down when you're falling.They don't think what you're bearing, they talk about people clothes.Were their home clean? Did they gave good food on funeral? Did they meet every lady? Why was her daughter not crying? I think she doesn't care enough? Her granddaugter was crying too much,very unsophisticated.These are the stigmas of our society.They know how to raise question on those who are mourning and If their way of mourning is not appealing to them.So