Arya Sue
I've been with Sebastian Radford for five years, and I assume there are no secrets between us. Then, the night before our engagement party, Sebastian says, "Cece, check the group chat."
I open the four-person group text, confused. "Nobody sent anything."
Sebastian goes, "Oh. I misread it."
When he heads into the bathroom, the tablet on the coffee table lights up with two new messages.
My friend, Noelle Frasier, texts, "You scared me to death. You almost gave away our trip plans."
My childhood friend, Wade Kirby, writes, "I really don't want Cece to tag along. I can't even cut loose with her around."
Sebastian replies, "I'll be more careful next time."
I glance at the group name.
"No Cecilia Ward Today!"
I scroll up. There are over 2,000 messages, documenting an entire life I know nothing about.
Just last week, on the night of my promotion dinner, they're all texting about that barbecue joint on the west side. I ask Sebastian why everyone seems so unenthusiastic, and he tells me, "Everyone's got their own stuff going on."
It turns out "their own stuff" is figuring out how to do everything without me.
I don't make a scene. I quietly set the tablet down, pick up my phone, and call to cancel the engagement banquet.
Then I walk into the bedroom and start packing.