I jumped into Ivy Asher's work with 'Lost Sentinel' first, totally out of order, and frankly, I'm glad I did. Publication order has this logical purity, but for someone new to her urban fantasy style, starting with that series felt more accessible; it's a solid, contained world. I only circled back to her earlier stuff like 'Dragon's Gift' later, and it was fine, almost like reading prequels. The connections between series are more like cameos or shared universe vibes than a strict chronological saga, so you won't ruin anything major.
Honestly, the obsession with 'proper' order can gatekeep enjoyment. If a later synopsis grabs you more, start there. Her writing style evolved, so earlier books might feel rougher. I'd say pick the premise that excites you most—be it witches, dragons, or fae—and dive in. The lore isn't so interwoven that you need a roadmap. My friend started with the later 'Coveted Prey' books and had zero issues following along.
Worrying about the perfect sequence sometimes kills the spontaneous joy of discovering an author. Asher's bibliographies are clearly marked by series on her website, so as long as you read within a series in order, you're golden. Cross-series Easter eggs are just little bonuses for the completionists, not essential plot points.