Mmm, the dynamic there is honestly pretty hard to get right. Some fics just throw them into bed together because 'enemies to lovers' is a popular tag, but that misses the point. They're both manipulators and control freaks, just with opposite aesthetics—one is raw, primal chaos and the other is all about curated, orderly terror. Good writers build the tension through power plays disguised as social niceties. Alastor's radio-filtered voice making a 'polite' suggestion that Lilith pointedly ignores, her ancient power simmering under a calm smile while his static buzzes in annoyance. It's a chess match where every move is layered with a double meaning. The emotional payoff isn't in declarations, but in the moments one of them slips and reveals genuine irritation or, god forbid, a flicker of respect.
I've clicked away from so many stories where Lilith is just written as a jealous ex-wife or Alastor as a one-note psychopath. The tension evaporates if you reduce them. The best one I read recently had them negotiating the layout of a new garden in Hell—something that seemed trivial—but the subtext was about territory, influence, and legacy. You felt the weight of millennia in every clipped sentence. That's where the good stuff is.