Obsession Vs Infatuation Novels & Stories

I want you to come to our final union as my bride. 'Three more days, my love. Three more days until we're united forever.' 'Eternally yours, Damien' I felt sick. The casual way he talked about murder, about stealing my life, about this twisted version of love he'd convinced himself was real—it was beyond disturbing. "He's completely insane," I said quietly. "He's obsessed," Maya corrected. "And obsession can be more dangerous than insanity. Insane people are unpredictable. But obsessed people follow patterns, fixate on specific goals."

"So now its my turn. I am not here just for the cake. So come on I wanna enjoy a show too." "Okay as You wish..!!" I never got too open with anyone but he was so different. I never let my gurads down in front of anyone but he was making me feel strange. I couldn't figure out my feelings then but I just articulate that it was just an attraction. He was actually too sweet and the gesture of cake and Vine on my Dad's birthday was a whole new level!! I didn't realize at that time that this attraction is going to be an addiction and obsession soon. I never imagined that I would fall for someone so easily....

Freddie answered. "It means?" "There is like just like. There is something that leads to obsession. There is love that is love. And there is love that is based on obsession. So which like and love do you mean?" Abigail frowned. "Mm... a kind of like where our heart beats faster than usual when we see that person. Then we wish we could keep seeing him. Waiting for his message; who knows when it will come in? Or beating just by getting a greeting from him?"

We should clearly know the difference between possessive and obsessive for this. Possessiveness is a good thing in a relationship up to a certain extent, when it goes beyond that it's just obsession. Possessiveness is showing your partner that she's yours and even jealousy is fine, it's normal. But understanding that you can't force her to do things because of that jealousy unless she wants to.. Obsession is wanting your partner to spend almost all their free time with you and getting jealous or angry if they hang out with their friends and leave you out.

We are more likely to have strong sentiments for someone we care about if we have a deep-rooted relationship with them than intense passion or infatuation with them, no matter who it is. But why am I thinking of it? We’re not a real couple who was very much in love with each other. And the love between us is just one-sided. Love that only benefits one party isn't real love. It's excruciating. Awaiting what may or may not come to pass is a futile endeavor. Someone who isn't aware of our presence is the object of our gaze. Being obsessed with someone while they're not even aware of our existence is a form of infatuation. And I denied this love in front of Zero.

“Sorry. Carry on.” I sighed again. “Yes, the guy I went on a date with. We’ve spent a lot of time together over the last month and now…he wants more. I want more, but hell, I’m afraid. I don’t want to repeat what happened before. I can already feel it. I’m already more than a little obsessed with him.” “Sometimes love and obsession are one and the same. Sometimes you can’t tell them apart because they’re no different. Love is thinking of someone every day, wanting to be with them all the time, needing to know everything about them. Just like an obsession is.”

At this point, he lacked the strength to get a smile halfway through, bothering at it would clearly be a waste of time, but he struggled to lay one on me. "love and obsession are two different things. They seem alike, but are very much apart —" "Are you saying I'm obsessed with the guy?" Gotta admit, I did love how sincere, and unsugarcoated his words relentlessly were, as much as I love that I didn't take them overly personal. "Don't get me wrong Aaron. First, you need to ask yourself, which is it. I'm I in love with this boy, or is he the ideal character I'd love to be?"

He was asking himself silently what the feeling of love was or he was going to experience it. “It is like the feeling of loyalty toward someone. You are loyal to them because you appreciate and love them. The only difference between this love and the one you have toward us is that you won’t have sexual urges toward us, but with the other person, you will want to be close to them, touch them, and do…other stuff.” I said, getting his attention and he cocked his head to the side, thinking about my words and I guess comparing them to his feelings. “I have never had any urges of that kind. I have never looked at someone and thought I want to be intimate with them.”

"You shouldn't say things like that Heaven, you sound obsessed with me." "What if I am obsessed with you? I couldn't bare it to lose you." I add, trying to ignore the pain of what it would feel like to actually lose him. "Heaven." I hear him sigh. "That's exactly what I'm talking about. Love and obsession aren't the same thing." "They can be." "Oh Heaven, what am I going to do with you?" "You can love me the same way I love you." "Yeah, and what kind of love is that?" He asks.

I'll say it bluntly, I'm not obligated to put up with these things, I know I said I wouldn't stress myself out, but damn, the bitch is hitting on Oliver in front of my face! The little smile that the bitch had on her face dies and she leaves the room without saying a peep. “Slutty little woman, I bet she’s like your ex-wife, I bet that bitch’s pussy was blinking at the sight of you, I should have stuck my hand in her face, these bitches only learn by being beaten,” I say irritated. “Calm down, let her go little one, you know I love you, you are more beautiful, fragrant, and delicious than any woman in this world, that shit doesn’t reach your feet.” He says and gives me a passionate kiss.