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At the methodology section. At the principle I had added the morning after Mom read the first vow line. *The staying comes before the deciding.* "Yes," I said. "I added that recently." "It's the most important principle in the system," she said. I thought about that. About whether she was right. About the order of the principles. "Yes," I said. "I think so too." She looked at her own notebook. She wrote something. She showed it to me. At the top of a fresh page she had written: *New documentation system. Starting principle: the staying comes before the deciding.*

He storms off back inside. I take in the view of this beautiful piece of land. It’s just as I described in my journal. Decisions…. Stay or leave?

Don listened with the same quality of attention he brought to the reading of a difficult text: absorbing, processing, filing the information in the place where it would be available for future use. "The decision is made," Thomas said, putting his notebook away. "The foxgloves will go where they want to go. Your job will be to decide, each year, whether to pull back the edges or let them continue. Not a single decision. A series of decisions." Don nodded. "The accumulation of decisions," he said. "Like everything else."

Gil was surprised to see Maan burst into tears. “ I’m confused. I feel sad leaving all of what we have started behind.” Maan emotionally said. Gil wrapped his arms around her and comforted her. “ Shh… do not put too much pressure on yourself. Okay. Think it over. We can still operate until Wednesday next week . Then you decide if you want to leave or stay.” Gil said. How she wished they could just stay that way. Hugging each other. Gil comforting her and easing all her worries. But a decision still has to be made Stay or Leave…

It takes what comes after the decision to stay. She looks at me. I say: the deciding to stay is the beginning. The staying and doing the work is the thing after. The account is the evidence that the staying was real. She looks at the meeting room. She says: he stayed. I say: yes. She looks at me with the full unguarded expression, the December into January version of it, the version that carries all of the months since the dark highway and the fake name and the four hundred and four dollars and everything those months have produced.

“You stayed because you wanted to, not because of the contract.” “That’s not true.” It would all end the moment she got what she wanted. And so would I. That was the only reason I was still here. The only reason I would stay and continue to involve myself. My wolf laughed. “Keep telling yourself that. I’m sure it’ll start sounding real eventually.” I stayed silent after that. This shouldn’t be happening. I had always been precise with my decisions. I don’t second-guess. I don’t linger where I don’t need to be. Once I identify a reason, I don’t revisit it repeatedly as if searching for a different answer.

Mara — What Staying Costs She stayed because he said stay. She had learned, in four years of operating inside structures she had not built, that instructions were information — that what someone told you to do in a moment of extremity revealed more about them than anything they said in a moment of comfort. Hayes had always said stand by in his moments of extremity, because Hayes' instinct under pressure was to retain control of the variables. Simon had said stay, which was the instinct of a man who did not want to make a permanent decision out of a present-tense pain.

He had filed it and he had not acted on it and he had let it be what it apparently was, which was a piece of something he did not have the full shape of. Now someone had said it at the gate. He stood. He thought, briefly, about who to bring. He thought about it and he made the decision in the specific clean way he had been making decisions since the situation had become what it was, not the deliberative way, not the way of a person running through the inventory of options, but the way of someone who had been paying close enough attention that the decision arrived already made, already weighted, needing only the acknowledgment. He thought about who to bring and the answer was no one, and the

This was the life they were building—one ordinary decision at a time. And when the day ended, it ended with them still here. Still choosing. Still staying.

I was really confused now, I didn’t know if I should have done something right from the beginning or continue from where I was. “I am not saying this to make you confused, neither am I choosing a path I think you should work with, or to. I am just telling you what I have observed simply, and what I think you should do avoid making decisions that will last a thorough stain in your heart for a long time, if not forever. I am also not rushing you into making a decision. I just want you to lay low, stay quiet and think of what you want so you can work towards it.