For lovers of romantic novels, I strongly suggest you start some literary chit chat. Make fun of her in a healthy way Lightly make fun of her hobby or interests,"I don't understand that you enjoy 'My Hero Academia', even who likes Deku more than Bakugou?". The main point is just to be speaking with a smile in each paragraph, change things up while still following natural speech flow, and to read her mood. If she isn't feeling comfortable or things aren't going well for whatever reason, then stop what you're doing and move on. By learning about the kind of books she enjoys can give you a wealth of possible discussions and teasing ideas.