Claimed by my ex husband’s uncle
Somewhere below us, fourteen floors down, life is proceeding with its ordinary momentum, unaware of what is being said in this room.
"Refusing to become cruel," she says, "is the hardest thing I have been trying to do. Every day, in this family, there are reasons to become what they are. And I am choosing not to, one day at a time, and it costs something real. That is not weakness."
"I know it isn't," I say.
"Do you?"
The question is direct and not unkind. She is asking whether I understand the difference from the inside, not just as an observation about her.