Your Dad's Perfect
There are so many under hard limit, some under soft limit, and more under confident about.
Alaric explained that a hard limit means no. No way in hell will I ever agree. A soft limit means I'm willing to do it, but I need a bit of coaxing or a specific situation for it to happen. A confident limit means I am happy to do it; no coaxing is needed.
"So, those on the not tried, when you try, you need to update the list to tried and input what you think going forward. It will update on both laptops."