FOUR SHADES OF DREY
he said, leaning forward with genuine interest.
And just like that, we were talking again. About psychology theories, about nature versus nurture, about whether people could really change or if they were fundamentally the same person their whole lives.
"I think people can change," I said. "But it takes a lot of work, and you have to really want it."
"What if you want to change but don't know how?" he asked.
"Then you find help. Therapy, friends, books. Whatever works." I paused. "Are you trying to change something about yourself?"