Question 1

What is the main plot of they're going to love you book?

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I found the main plot of 'They're Going to Love You' revolves around a dancer, Carlisle, who gets pulled back into the complicated world of her estranged family after her father's death. It's set heavily in the New York City ballet scene, which I thought was rendered with such specific, gritty detail—the sore feet, the competition, the sheer physical toll. The central conflict isn't just about inheritance; it's about this decades-old betrayal she committed against her father and his partner, Robert, that fractured everything. The book moves between her present, dealing with the fallout and a looming career decision, and the past in the 80s during the AIDS crisis, showing how that one act of youthful dishonesty cost her a home and a family.

What stuck with me wasn't the plot mechanics, though. It was the aching sense of a life lived in the shadow of a single mistake. The ballet backdrop isn't just glamour; it's a framework about performance, about presenting a perfect facade while everything is strained underneath. The resolution isn't a neat bow but more about whether you can ever really mend something you broke when you were too young to understand its value. The ending left me with a quiet, melancholic feeling about the families we choose and the ones we lose through our own actions.

Question 2

Is they're going to love you book worth reading for romance fans?

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I just finished 'They're Going to Love You' a couple weeks ago, honestly? It's not the sweet escape some romance readers might be hunting for. The core is a ballet world family drama spanning decades, with the romantic relationship more as a crucial, painful hinge in the protagonist's past. If you go in expecting a central will-they-won't-they or a grand, sweeping love story, you might feel misled. The emotional weight is about betrayal, forgiveness, and the messy legacies within a family, with the romance being the catalyst for the rift. The love story itself is poignant but contained; it’s more about its devastating aftermath than its build-up.

That said, for romance fans who appreciate complex emotional landscapes and don't mind the love story being a critical turning point rather than the sole destination, it's profoundly moving. Meg Howrey writes about art, ambition, and sacrifice with such precision. The New York and ballet settings are vividly drawn, almost characters themselves. You feel the tension between personal desire and familial loyalty in your bones. It's a book that sits with you, melancholic and sharp, long after you finish. I found myself thinking about the choices the characters made for days, which is a kind of power not all books have.

So worth it? Depends on your mood. It’s a literary novel with romantic elements, not a romance novel. If you want heartwarming or steamy, look elsewhere. If you want something achingly beautiful about the costs of love and art, give it a shot. Just be ready for a quieter, more contemplative ache than a fluttery heart.

Question 3

Who are the key characters in they're going to love you book?

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I picked up 'They're Going to Love You' hoping for a found-family story set against the New York ballet world, and Meg Howrey really delivers on the character front. The core is Carlisle Martin, a choreographer in her forties reflecting on a pivotal summer in her teens. The narrative hinges on her relationship with her father Robert and his partner James, who live in this magical Greenwich Village apartment that becomes a sanctuary for her. Those two men are so sharply drawn—Robert with his distant, critical brilliance and James with his warmth that masks his own complexities. They create this intense, artistic environment that shapes Carlisle entirely.

Isabel, Carlisle's mother and a former dancer, is another crucial piece, representing a different, messier kind of artistic life. The tension between the world her father created and the one her mother inhabits fuels a lot of Carlisle's internal conflict. There's also a younger dancer, Bankston, who appears later and forces Carlisle to confront her past and the sacrifices she's made. It's not a huge cast, but each person feels essential, like they're all holding up a different corner of the emotional truth. What sticks with me is how none of them are purely heroic or villainous; they're all artists who've chosen their art over conventional life, and the collateral damage that causes. The book's power comes from watching Carlisle, decades later, finally piece together what that summer really meant and how to live with the love and betrayal all tangled up together.

Question 4

Where can I listen to the audiobook of they're going to love you?

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I actually found the audiobook on Libro.fm! It’s a good alternative if you’re trying to avoid that one massive retailer. The narration by Kristen Sieh is really solid—she captures Carlisle’s mix of anxiety and artistic longing perfectly, which is a huge part of the book’s vibe. It’s not just about listening; her performance adds a layer of interiority to the ballet world and family drama that I appreciated.

One thing to note: I checked my local library’s app (Hoopla) first, but they only had the ebook. Might be worth trying OverDrive or Libby depending on your library system. If you’re into contemporary fiction about messy creative families, this audiobook definitely works. The quiet moments in the Chelsea apartment felt even more intimate with headphones on.

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Hating to love you

To Love and To Be Loved

Volunteer Love

LOVING YOU: A Second Chance At Love

THEIRS

The Confused Love

His Despair

I marked her mine

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