There's a bit of a popular love-triangle in 'To Love and To Be Loved' that everyone talks about, but for me, the real core of the book was the protagonist's dynamic with her best friend. It's a relationship that predates the romance, and you watch it strain and shift as new partners enter the picture. The book is less about grand romantic gestures and more about the quiet, sometimes resentful, recalibration of old loyalties.
It also handles emotional baggage in a way that felt raw. One character is recovering from a family loss and keeps trying to 'fix' their new partner, which creates this unhealthy cycle of dependence. It's not glamorized; you see the arguments, the exhaustion, the moments where love feels like a heavy obligation. That resonated more than the swoon-worthy parts.
Honestly, the ending left me a bit conflicted—it wasn't a neat resolution for everyone, which I guess is the point. Some dynamics just don't get fully repaired.