Because their is tension squeezing your insides whether you're prepared or not,Its still there.
So our mind don't wander anywhere because their is a time bomb ticking in your brain,waiting to explode at anytime.
I hate them yet I survived.Now they're over.
The best feeling is when they're over.
You know like a huge boulder has been removed from my shoulders.
So we enjoyed the last day by roaming in college.Roaming is really my thing.
I like to be free of bounds.
As my lifestyle due to absence of my mother, I'm answerable to none.Baba don't pay much attention to where I'm going,what I'm doing unless I'm not causing trouble.
Same goes with my brother.So there are perks of my life.I don't know I would like to have some loving ties than no hindrance.But this what circumstances have made me to.
I didn't chose what I've become.But I can't change it anymore.
Ok Chachu cares a hell lot.He always checks upon me,try to keep me safe.But still sometime I manage to sneak before him.
When I went back home I was happy and calm.The best sleep came after exam.Your whole body relaxes and veins start to dilate the pressure of blood.
As sleepyhead I am I went to deep slumber.Afterwards I planned to visit my Nanyalis (my maternal grandfather and grandmother).
Baba had bought me mobile phone when I went to academy saying Its necessary now.Chachu was not a bit happy about it .It was simple phone.
Here I got a text from someone saying:
Hi
I asked wondering who was that : Who???
Amaar.
I felt anticipation coursing through me.I was really baffled to know he was texting me.Oh ok!
My mind was nagging me for what stupid I am for saying ok.Whatever It was sent now.Kya haal hai? (How are you)
Thek hun (I'm fine)
.I replied shortly.What was I supposed to say.It was not we were best buddies.Ami kesi hain?.He was asking about Dado aka my grandmother.
Thek (Okay) ~ Me
Tmhy pata mjhy tmhare ek bt bhaut achi lgti (You know I like that thing about you) ~He
Now I was really breathing hard.
Kya baat? (Which thing?) ~ Me
Kay tum apne kaam sy kaam rakhti(That you mind your own business) ~He
Ok I know It was simple thing.Yet coming from his mouth make me happy.
Stupid and naive hayaat.My brain shuts me up.
Thankyou~ Me
Hayaat ~ He
I know my name is beautiful but coming from him makes it most beautiful and affectionate thing in world.He never called my name.
Always used to say witch, kid and cat.It really sounds good.
G (Yes) ~ Me
I'm really bored.Can you keep chatting with me ~ He
I thought what to say then agreed.
Ok what you want to talk about~MeAnything.Just keep chatting ~ He
I tell you jokes then ~ Me
Ok ~ He
Then I forward him some jokes that I've got in my inbox.
He laughed and reply.So like that evening went.
Days went by and I get addicted to texts.
You know the worst part of falling is you don't know your drowning and you realize when water had reached beyond safety.
Actually our families were always close and Chachii also used to call me her daughter.They always talk about our marriage.
We were destined to be together and I was accepting that fact with time.The bitterness for him was going away with something different.I liked that something.
Little did I know It was never meant to be.The little butterflies were turning into huge storms in my heart and I was at that naive time of my age that I didn't know how to prevent that You can't save yourself from burns when you've already touched the fire**********************
One day I was rushing towards my room when I heard voices from other room.
I can recognize his voice from miles away.I always do .I don't know it became my habit.
Like the air tell me before his arrival that he is coming I halted in the steps when I caught their chatter."Baba why don't you understand, I don't like her"
His voice was irritated thick with frustration Like he was trying to convince Chacha about something I know he has a way with words He always get what he wants"What's wrong with her she is best match for you , hayat is nice girl"
Arshad Chacha said in his firm tone.Breath caught in my throat at his statement.What the heck they were talking about.Now my ears perked up in concentration.
And my heart was beating faster in anticipation of his next words"I always thought of her as my little sister.She is insane.I'm not mad enough to marry her"
He sighed.These words were enough to pierce a hole in my heart.
Mad enough??Tears were streaming down my face.I was utterly shocked at those words.It felt like a dagger in my heart.
His cruel words were like a slap to my soul , my mind and my existenceI can't believe it.My mind unable to understand all those declarations.
Those stares,Those compliments
"You look beautiful Haya"
She is insane
"I'm addicted to your talking"
I'm not mad enough to marry her.
You're so innocent
What he want?
Is my pureness not enough?It arose so many questions in my already perplexed mind
What do I lack?Just because I'm not like other girls Just because I don't giggle at every man's comment Just because I'm not comfortable enough to talk dirty with him Just because I haven't shown anything to him My beauty, my curves Just because I'm not a fake piece of doll that is always perfect People are enchanted by her every move Just because I'm not that girlThat day I realized I was broken.Who said emotional pain is normal.
My confidence was ruinedIt hurts.My chest was tightened,all life knocked out of me.I don't know when he became such an important part in my life.
I just knew he was always there in every joy in every tear he was there.My memories were full of him in our childhood.He was there when my favourite music phone was broken and he mend it for me.He was there when my foot was injured and he put a cloth on it and took care of me and hide me from Dado for two days as I slipped from roof of the house in murree.Our roofs are slanted there made of tin when we use to take slides.He was there always teaming with me while playing football I was his favourite goal keeper.He was always there playing with whiteboard acting as my teacher while we were playing school.He was there when my matric result was out.In childhood he was like a brother to me,a support like hussnain.Id know when my feelings changed and I want him in my every memory that was built in future.
I felt so embarassed,shocked that he doesn't felt that bond that I always felt with all these passing years.How could he forget every memory.I was not that unnoticeable and unloveable that after such a long time nothing develops.How could I be such a fool to not know his true intentions.I was really making assumptions on my own.I was really that naive to not understand a man's gaze of love.If I had given such precious and long time to someone else he would have kissed the ground I walk on.I never looked at any other boy,there was no place for anyone in my life I always protected myself for what.For my humilition,for pain.I don't want anything from him like other girls.No money,no clothes,no pampering just love.Why can't he just give me that.Why can't he see me like I see him without flaws,beautiful with his mistakes.I felt his kindness and fell in love with it then why did he not notice my small acts ,my attributes.It tore my heart.That I wasted my love and care for wrong person from the start.It broke me.I want to shout loud,I want to complain loudly but I can't.That day I wished I never love anyone as it brought only pain.I promised that I would never love a male again.I will never give someone such power to break my heart and walk all over it.I'm not going to give anyone my precious time,attention anymore.I can't be the same person anymore
My heart constricted in pain.It was pain.Pain of rejection.Nothing is worst as rejection.
That night I broke apart.I don't know why but it hurts, It hurts more than anything.I felt daggers boring through my heart crushing it into pieces.Stupid me..I have not a little idea what I'm getting myself into.I used to tell myself ,its optional. If Allah blessed me with him its well and good.If not I will move on.Silly me had not a bit idea that it would bleed my heart.I would be victim.I didn't realize your feelings are most precious thingYour heart is most sensitive and essential thing in your bodyYou can't give it to anybodyNo nobody deserves your true loveNobody deserves your pure heartI will never ever allow any other man to contaminate my soul and heartMy self-esteem was brutally killed.I HAYAT AHSAN, who taught other girls not to fall for anything as worthless as boys.I who tell them how much naive they are to trust them ,had fallen into trap.How could I? Was my Imaan that weak? Was I only wort
"They say I'm wild, they're right because I possess untamed spirits"Like the summer wind rushing through the beach, my life was going and moving.I was hell busy in my studies.Let me tell you I was always bright student.I took part in every competition.I don't know a part of me craves for attention and affection.Today my sister got 1st position in speech.Everybody was celebrating like we got Ferrari.No offence I just love Ferrari.That red colour is so hotMy mom was gloating like a king who got his throne.Baba made a video of her.I wasn't envious of her.No I was just mad at the irony.When I used to do these things.When I used to come up with medal ,no one bothers except Chachu.He always appreciated me.He was my small beacon of life in my world of darkness.****FLASHBACK*****I won the great competition of quiz in school.I got a big prize.I was so happy.Everyone came even the students other than my class fellows congratulated
I woke up early in the morning and offered Fajjar.Let me get you straight I'm not punctual in Namaz.I don't know but that regularity I never achieved.Is it me or my abnormal life I don't know.But I came to know that I offer prayer when I want to seek peace and once I get it, I stop praying.I know its bad,Ofcourse I know but that pathetic I am.I always thought of becoming punctual but my light again fades and mingles with darknessThere's darkness still inside me and I don't know I will ever get rid of it because it is a part of my soul.You could protect yourself from others but how could you protect yourself from you.What If danger lies inside you!!I haven't found a way to conquer my that part.My faith is still uncomplete.And I knew it but I haven't find my light not yet.I don't know a part of me still wants to ju
I know I have fallen again.Would you rise me now"*****************************When I reached near the tall white building a.k.a Hospital, my face was contorted into fear.ALLAH TALLAH!!! Just save me this time.I promise I would be a good girl!!I thanked young soldier, he smiled and left.Ok Hayaaat! BE CONFIDENT...Show like everything is cool whether you're shivering inside.Actually I was.I introduced myself to lady at the counter and she told me that, I should talk to Dr.Abdullah about my duty who was currently in ward.I went towards the ward,my nose hitting the typical-hospital-scent.I always hated it.But once you spend a while, you get used to it.Entering in, I notice several people in bandages, injured on beds.I just hate those white sheets.I always thought why can't hospital bed be colourful.
Ok I cry very rarely but when I do a whole sea of sorrows,tears,my pain comes into it.When I cry I cry about each bad thing happening in my life, each betrayal, each loss.Its kind of trigger when it is stimulated, my whole emotions are out.I'm really extremist.I do things to an edge otherwise I don't do them.I also get bored easily. Its like switch of passions that kept switching on and off.Sometimes Chachu tell me that:"You have to maintain stability in life.There should be consistency and steadfastness in your actions."He's right.He's always right.He had an huge insight and maturity which is a weapon of few men.He talks wisdom with so much warmth that I melt into it.While My Baba is opposite.He really don't know how to synchronize his words with the situation.He can't put sense into anyone.But he has his own charms.There are few favourite places of mine to cry.One bathroom,other under my covers on pillow.So In today's case I was
"Why can't you be moon...So that I could gaze at you without thinking its sin"Ok that stupid pain of rejection again bloomed in my heart when today my grandmother called in.She is something very important in my life.After my mother death,she stood for me and my brother when others don't care.She loved us,cared for us.Her eyes showing remorse,pain and affection towards us.She was tough as stone but melted for us.I really love her.She means a lot to me.She called for asking about how I'm doing.She used to say:"My son is big idiot.If he ever hurt you call me.I will bang some sense into his brain through my cane"She has that cane with her which she uses for multifunctions like switching off the button of tv, grabbing the little chair towards herself so that she could lay her one leg on it.As her one leg is swollen, due to cellulitis affecting it 2 years ago.For also kicking my cousins or his grand childrens when they are doing somethi
After I settled in my home I continued my usual routine.Winters were coming nearer day by day.I hate winters personally because of attack of horrendous flu alongwith runny nose,teary eyes and repeatless sneezing and coughing.But I know a few preventive measures to stay away from Manhoos flu,So I can survive.The best part is Dado would soon be coming.Suddenly that kind-not-so-kind image of my grandmother came in my mind bringing a grin on my face.I really love her.She's my huge support mechanism.All these years my 'Nano Jan' and "Dado Jan" had became motherly figure for me.She's really annoying sometimes barking orders and clearly stating what she doesn't like ,accompanied by scrunching of her nose, and her signature curling of fingers in a snake shape and pointing at the accuser or may I say victim.I laughed remembering those times when she would do that to Shazia Chachi (my father's first brother wife) because she hadn't cook food yet.
So right now I'm at Chachu's home eating breakfast as I haven't any in mine.Dadu is a bit worried.She has a kind of hospital phoebia.I don't know when she is going towards hospital she starts panicking,her hearbeat accelerate at high pace,sweat profused on her forehead."Stop panicking dado.I know you'll be fine.That is nothing big.It would be a minor urinary infection as always"I tried to soothe her a bit.She just nodded at me.We took her towards Central Hospital in urology department.Actually she wasn't feeling fine after her minor diltation in CMH.Her legs started to swell and due to continuos urination she couldn't sleep alnight.Let me tell you guys government hospital is like a minor table or place but patients are crowding like houseflies all over the place.It feels like every person in Pakistan has this disease.And don't ask me about the huge line.We had a call number of 210 .Usually we go to private urologists and have