UnXpected

What is Love?

Let's just say that "Love" always starts between two people.... two people who seek this kind of feeling that makes us live more in a meaningful way.

The question is, how do we know if that love could really make our lives more meaningful? If you are happy with him, do you think that it is the right person? If he makes your heart flutter and give you butterflies, do you think you should fall for him already? If he says the three magic words 'I love you', does that mean you are a couple already?

So how can we be so sure that this is Love?

First, Honesty

What is this so called "Honesty"? It's simple, if he is true to you in all aspects especially to your feelings and pays attention to it. It makes you ponder about it if he is doing it out of pity or wants you to know that he is only honest to you. Is he the one?

How do you know or going to make sure that he is "The One"? Or should I say... the one that got away? Because you aren't his' "The One”? Maybe you're his "The Two? The Three? Ten?"... Yeah, it hurts I know that for a fact, but it happens. Especially to those people that believe on the saying "Love is Blind" it is tricky.

You get blinded by love of course, that you think that he is the one, but deep inside he is just making you, his rebound. Oh, see? didn't see that coming' huh? Because he built up all your hopes and dreams. There is a chance that he will just play you in his hands, and in the end, you are just going to get hurt.

Second, Trust

What really does "Trust" mean and must do in a relationship? If there is no trust, then what? Yeah, you form trust if you are honest with each other, but it doesn't run in the line of honesty. It goes with a different line; you choose to trust someone and 'RISK' what you have and believe on the person. With, what if you saw something that brought the downfall of your trust to him? Betrayal, right? You need to trust to be betrayed. Would you still stay and listen for the reasons or just give up because it hurts?

Lastly, Care

"Care" is the most important thing in any kind of love. Family, friends, and lovers.

In a relationship, care is the center of anything. Even if he asks you 'Have you eaten yet?', 'What are you up to?', 'Who are you coming with?', 'Are you okay?', 'What do you want to eat?', 'Are you happy?', 'Was it tiring? 'You need to rest and take a break?'.. Even by actions it works the same way, you can see most of the time care is surrounded throughout the relationship.

But what if... by the time that you guys separated from each other, then that was the only time he started caring? Are there any unexpected reasons behind that? Would you choose to find the answers by yourself or just ignore it knowing that he might just trying to get you to play his games again? A real mystery indeed, boys nowadays sheesh. Am I right girls?

Do you want to know the truth?

The truth that lies behind the curtains of these two people, seeking answers only to find out that it leads to odd decisions, just to realize some "unXpected" reasons that they weren't prepared for~