Leafy Hurray
As I prepare my graduation speech as one of the college's outstanding graduates, I come across a post.
"Is it necessary for parents to travel 600 miles for their kid's graduation? Will they regret it if they don't go?"
The comments are divided.
"It's such an important moment in your kid's life. If you can make it, you should."
"It's too much of a hassle. I didn't even ask my mom to come."
The top comment has the same profile picture as my mother, Carmen Dunham.
"Of course we have to go! My youngest son's college is a thousand miles away, but my husband is still driving all the way to bring the whole family along."
I frown and check the message Mom has sent me.
"I won't be coming to your graduation ceremony. It's simply too far away."
I open the replies below and find a comment from my older sister, Rebecca Kaufman.
"Exactly! I even want to take a photo with my little brother in his cap and gown."
Just as I begin to think they're planning a surprise for me and my younger brother, Steve Kaufman, who attends the same college, I come across a comment from my girlfriend, Audrey Fulton. There's even a photo attached to it.
"The whole family is finally here! Looking forward to tomorrow's graduation ceremony!"
In the photo, I see my father, Randall Kaufman, who tells me he's too busy to come. Mom is there too, despite claiming the trip is too far. Rebecca, who thinks it's no big deal, is also in the picture.
And in the middle, Steve and Audrey stand close together with their hands intertwined.
I take a deep breath and delete every mention of my family and Audrey from my graduation speech. Then, I message my advisor, Leroy Turner.
"Mr. Turner, I've made up my mind about your offer to pursue a PhD."