Arya Sue
My husband, Harrison Knight, was a workaholic.
When stomach pain landed me in the hospital, he had his assistant send me medication. When my mother underwent surgery, he was abroad negotiating an acquisition.
In seven years of marriage, he'd missed three of my birthdays and five of our anniversaries.
He always said, "The company's still getting off the ground. I can't afford to slow down."
I understood.
Years ago, his first love, Celeste Foster, had left him because he was poor. Afterward, he'd sworn he would make something of himself.
He went on business trips, had late nights, and worked himself to the bone.
For seven years, Harrison had pushed himself relentlessly, going from a penniless nobody to a CEO everyone looked up to.
I'd grown used to him always being in a rush. I'd grown used to work coming before everything else.
Until the day I returned from negotiating a billion-dollar deal and saw Celeste's latest post.
In the photo, Harrison stood outside the airport terminal. He'd canceled his three o'clock board meeting to pick her up himself. He was even bent down in front of her, tying her loose shoelace.
Her caption read: [After all these years, you're still the best.]
I stared at the photo for a long time.
Then suddenly, I almost laughed. So it wasn't that Harrison couldn't slow down. He just wouldn't do it for me.
That night, he called. "Celeste just got back. I'm not coming home tonight. Don't read anything into it. She's just an old friend."
"Okay," I said quietly.
Then I opened my laptop and messaged my attorney: [Send me the divorce papers tonight.]
If he could stop for an old love, then it was time I stopped too.
After seven years of running myself ragged for him, I was done.