Consider the length. This is a marathon, not a sprint. If you look at the 30+ book list and feel dread, maybe don't commit to the whole thing right away. Commit to the Dark Elf Trilogy. Three books. That's a complete, satisfying story arc with a beginning, middle, and end. If you finish 'Sojourn' and feel 'meh,' you can walk away having read a great fantasy trilogy. If you finish and crave more, then look at the Icewind Dale Trilogy as the next three-book adventure. Framing it as a series of connected trilogies rather than one massive tome is psychologically easier. The reading order is just the connecting thread between these smaller, manageable blocks.