I recently stumbled upon this exact theme while digging through urban fantasy novels, and wow, there's some fantastic stuff out there! One that blew me away was 'Moon Called' by Patricia Briggs—it's the first in her 'Mercy Thompson' series. The protagonist, Mercy, is a walker (a Native American shapeshifter), not a classic werewolf, but the lore is so rich and the transformation scenes are visceral. The series delves into pack dynamics, which feels fresh compared to typical alpha-male tropes.
Another gem is 'Bitten' by Kelley Armstrong, part of the 'Women of the Otherworld' series. Elena Michaels is the only female werewolf in her pack, and Armstrong nails the struggle of balancing human relationships with primal instincts. The book doesn’t romanticize lycanthropy; instead, it explores the loneliness and violence tied to it. If you want something grittier, 'The Silvered' by Tanya Huff blends werewolves with steampunk—a noblewoman’s transformation becomes a rebellion tool against oppression. The political layers here are chef’s kiss.