He cancelled our wedding for the seventh time
I met my best friend Lila for wine the next night, spilling everything.
“She’s playing the damsel,” Lila said, swirling her merlot. “Classic green tea move—sweet to his face, poison behind his back. And he’s eating it up.”
“I don’t know what to do,” I admitted, my voice small. “He says I’m imagining it.”
“That’s gaslighting,” Lila said, leaning forward. “He’s making you doubt your reality to protect his guilt. You need to call her out.”
“I tried,” I said, rubbing my temples. “He thinks I’m paranoid.”