Stop Overthinking Your Relationship Novels & Stories

"You should really talk to him, Seth. He always leaves things lying around…" Seth hadn't heard the rest. His mind had been racing with only one thought. "She loves so deeply. Why can't she love me?"

Keith could have lied just to keep me from getting upset. He might not have been serious at all when he suggested we start our relationship over. I'm the foolish one here, taking his words too seriously when I know we can't control others. People can change whenever they want, and the best way to protect yourself from getting hurt is to keep your expectations in check.

That’s what couples are supposed to do in situations like that– to communicate. “I’m so sorry for not trusting you enough to handle it if I had come to you about it. I had thought it was going to make you mad.” I quietly mumbled out and watched as Justin scoffed and rolled his eyes. “It definitely wouldn’t have made me mad. You just thought about it way too much, which is why I always ask you to stop overthinking.” He admonished and I grimaced. “You know I can’t help it.” I pointed out and he rolled his eyes again, but he was smiling a little this time.

I have to make a decision sooner or later. I lay on my bed and think about the past few months. How Ashton and I got closer and how he had made me feel since the first day. He wasn't anything like Armando but the fear was still there. What if he also finds me boring after a few months?What if he also cheated on me because I wasn't enough for him? I couldn't sleep as I thought about everything that could go wrong if I started a relationship with him. But then I have the what if’s. What if I am overthinking all of this? What if the two of us could be happy? What if he was my second chance at love? What if I was making a mistake by pushing him away?

“I’m scared, I’m always scared. That he might cheat and I admit it, Bella is beautiful and she’s persistent in getting Arthur attention and I even saw him smile while talking to her. He rarely do that and we all know that because he was ruthless to me and never did once in our secret relationship he laugh at my jokes. What if he’s mistaken that I’m the love of his life like he was mistaken that they will be forever with his wife Flora?” “Emily, stop over thinking. You attract what you’re afraid of. Just focus on your healing, yourself and you’re relationship with him. Don’t over react because nothing happen. You didn’t caught him having sex with her or kissing her. So stop imagining stuff an

I didn’t let him continue with what he was trying to say. I pulled him into a tight hug because I felt like he needed it, “Hey, it’s okay, you don’t have to think about it that much,” “She is your first love, which is why you’re overthinking this,” I added while sighing deeply, “And I think you should give yourself a break from her, I bet she won’t care about what you think right now,” “Every time you speak about her, you always seemed to be in a gloomy mood, maybe, you should just think about the fun memories we made today,”

~~**~~ Author note: Key to a relationship is trust,talking, faith, and belief. And always give each other benefits of doubt. If he did something bad or hurt you; try to reason why he has done this. And when your other half did something wrong try to call the person down and talk. Don't hold grudges. And always watch or study your partner to upset him/her. Don't let your ego ruin your relationship. Don't be too big or proud to say sorry with sorry,some relationships that have been broken wnt had. And when you notice your partner is angry at you, try to sit him/her down and talk to her/him with a sweet and soothing voice or buy/ do what you know that could appease him/her. And try to be romant

Eon was always the type who does not know about personal spaces and boundaries. I stepped back a bit before holding onto my chest, “I already told you about this kind of personal space.” “And I told you to get used to it because I want to be closer to you, is that understood?” I heard him firmly say. I nodded before turning my back towards him, “I will go to bed and will wait for you there, okay? We should watch this new episode from this anime I found out yesterday, I am sure you will like it.” Distracting my overthinking will help me forget about the horrible thoughts I have in this relationship.

I opened my mouth, but closed it when he gave me a look. "I know your scared. And maybe it's our fault for not exactly explaining things to you. But overthinking things won't go in your favor." Cupping my cheeks, he gently wiped my tears away. "Your so stuck in your head, you don't know what's in front of you. You have love and support. You have us. Your trying to find a motive that isn't there. Your trying to find the bad in what's good for you. Please, stop overthinking things."

I asked, "Do you know why I left? It wasn't because of the graduation photo or Mandy. It's because I felt like I was slowly losing myself over the course of our relationship. "You used to always be at the forefront of my mind whenever I had to make a decision. Should I go for the exchange program? Should I pursue post-graduate studies? Should I stay in the city? Should I join my family's company? I always put you before any future plans I had. "However, I later realized that while you might have included me in your future as well, I was never a part of your present." Tears slid soundlessly down Philip's cheeks.