Sweet Hole
"No, I am in love with you on purpose."
Alan pointed to everyone in the room and said, "Most of you are not in a relationship because you live in a myth about relationships. Relationships that serve the people in them are active creations. You wake up in the morning, roll over with a day's growth of beard and morning breath, and open your eyes to see someone with no makeup, messy hair, and morning breath, and you say, "Good morning, sweetheart, I love you." The "I love you" isn't something you found under the blankets; you created it in the face of her or his not being Brad Pitt or Jennifer Aniston. You create it every day by saying it and spending the rest of the day making it so."