Finding YA romantasy with dragons can be tricky because the dragon element often pushes things into adult territory, especially with some of the spicy shifter dynamics in the indie scene. Your safest bet is to stick with traditionally published YA fantasy romance. Seraphina' by Rachel Hartman is a beautiful starting point—it’s more about self-discovery and political intrigue, with a slow-burn, nuanced connection rather than a hot-and-heavy romance. The dragons are intellectually fascinating, taking human form, which creates this great tension between species. For a more classic adventure feel, 'Eragon' obviously has dragons, though the romance is very, very subtle and almost non-existent in the first book. Don’t overlook 'Dragon Slippers' by Jessica Day George; it’s lighter, charming, and the relationship with the dragon is the core friendship, with a sweet human romance subplot. Honestly, a lot of the ‘dragon romance’ shelves on retailers are packed with adult paranormal romance, so you really have to read the blurbs and reviews carefully. I’ve been burned a few times thinking something was YA only to find, well, very adult situations a few chapters in. Libraries and bookstores usually have a dedicated YA fantasy section where these gems are properly categorized, which helps avoid that mix-up.
Another angle is to look at YA authors who write dragon-centric series without making the romance the sole focus. Julie Kagawa’s 'Talon' series is solid—it’s about dragon shifters in hiding, with a forbidden romance element between a dragon and a dragon hunter. It feels very YA in its pacing and the age of the protagonists. Sometimes the search is less about finding ‘dragon romance’ and more about finding great dragon books that happen to have a romantic subplot satisfying enough for a romance-seeking reader. The community over on the YA subreddit often has specific recommendation threads for this exact niche, which is how I found a few lesser-known titles like 'A Dragon’s Guide to the Care and Feeding of Humans'—though that one is more comedic than romantic.