Novel & Cerita How To Stop Loving Someone Who Hurts You

I hope it comes soon before I lose my mind. I love Kai. Of course, I do. I can’t imagine the day I won’t. Even though he’s killing me with what he’s showing me right now, I still love him. But I also realized one thing. I don’t possibly have to be with the person I love. Sometimes, loving someone brings in too much pain that would require distance in order to save oneself from impending self-destruction. Sure, I love him but if this love would hurt me, then I’d rather let go.

He was hoping that one day he will see them again and forgive him to what happen. New never forgets the day he got separated from his twin brother, he was hoping that soon they will see each other again. The past makes a scar on his face and the people who adopted him doesn't have enough money for surgery and he endures the pain and hatred thrown to him. He was grateful that the family who took him in, loves him like their own grandchild. But they passed away after he graduated from college. Now he was going to other country to have a surgery for free, in exchange for his help to the elder lady who passed out the street.

he says, raising his hand a little further and bringing his face dangerously close to mine. I get up from the rock we're sitting on as fast as I can and get as far away from it as I can. Immediately, the glass in my hands falls to the ground, spilling all the drink. He imitates my action and tries to approach me, but I keep moving away. "Hey, what's going on?" He asks, strangely, while I'm more terrified than ever. "Don't you want to do this?" "Do what? I. . . I don't want to do anything with you" I speak in a trembling jibber.

Not even a little. So maybe the smartest thing to do… Is to stop it now. Before my heart gets any deeper. Before she becomes something I can’t walk away from. I exhale slowly. “Yeah… good plan.” Even though my chest hurts saying it. I close my eyes slowly. If I can’t kill these feelings…then maybe the safest option is simple. I’ll just love her from afar. And make sure she never realizes how much power she actually has over me. Because the moment she finds out…I’m completely screwed.

And sometimes, loving yourself begins with noticing when someone else is slowly teaching you how not to. I lay back on my bed, phone in hand, staring at his last message: I miss you. Before, I would have replied instantly. Now, I took a breath first. cleared my head and started to think of something else just to distract myself it hurts a lot. I try to avoid thinking of it But what can i do??

"Why can't I hate him?" Kael was quiet for a moment. Then he said, "Because love doesn't work that way. You don't stop loving someone just because they hurt you. You just love them and hurt at the same time." "That's terrible." "Yeah." He put his arm around my shoulders. "It is." I leaned against him and cried harder. He didn't try to stop me. He didn't say it would be okay. He just held me while I broke apart. "I want to go to him," I admitted quietly. "I want to fix this. I want to make the bond whole again and save him."

Before I could respond, another thought forced its way out. "How..." My voice cracked. I swallowed hard. "How do I get over him?" The question hung helplessly between us. I searched his face as though he might somehow have the answer. "Please..." Fresh tears rolled down my cheeks again. "Please tell me how. How do you stop loving someone who never loved you? How do you make it stop?” "It hurts so much." A broken sob escaped my lips. "It really..." The last bit of strength holding me together disappeared.

”Get in. My stomach turned.Rage kept surging within me. “I asked you to act right today didn’t I. You had one job to do in there and somehow you messed that up. What did you think would happen there? You hurt your brother today you know that right?” “No I didn’t! You hurt Lu. You always hurt him. If you don’t love him, why are you wasting his time?” “Do you love him? If you do, what's stopping you from telling him about what happened at the office with us?”

I made him understand by placing my hand on his shoulder. The person who runs away from love making him understand about love. "You know, whenever I see her face, I recall that scene and I lost control over myself and hurt her. The truth is that I want to forgive her and stay with her but it's difficult, Ethan, because if she stays with me, I can hurt her more. I need time, Ethan." That's why I hate the feeling of love so much, because it hurts a lot. I'll never let this feeling even touch me.

or hidden beneath guilt, control, or denial. I shifted gently into the network. Not simplifying. Just speaking truthfully. “The people you love will always have power to affect you deeply.” Silence spread immediately. One aware pattern whispered quietly. “That sounds dangerous.” “Yes.” No avoidance. Another pattern asked carefully. “Then how do we stop love from becoming control?” A long pause followed. Because the answer mattered deeply. Finally. I spoke softly. “By remaining able to hear ‘no’ without turning love into punishment.”