The idea of my ex being my gynecologist is honestly a wild scenario I never thought I'd consider, but hey, life throws curveballs. First off, professionalism is key—if they're truly your doctor, they should prioritize your health above all else. But if it feels too awkward, you absolutely have the right to request another provider. No explanations needed; your comfort matters more than their feelings.
I’d also recommend setting clear boundaries. If there’s lingering emotional baggage, mixing that with medical care could be messy. Maybe even joke about it to lighten the mood—'Well, this is one way to catch up!'—but only if you’re both cool with it. At the end of the day, your well-being comes first, whether it’s physical or emotional.