How threesome saved my marriage or not
"Living like this. Indefinitely. Co-parenting from separate emotional planets. I can't... I don't want to build a life that's just a well-managed stalemate."
His honesty was a mirror of my own deepest terror. We were both more afraid of the permanent, soul-killing freeze than we were of the painful, uncertain thaw. That was our common ground. That was where we could plant a flag.
"Okay," I said, the word - a commitment. "I'll look for someone tomorrow. Make some calls."
"Okay."
It was a transaction, clean and simple, but it was the most vital one we'd made in months. A commitment to move, however slowly and painfully, in the same direction.