The werewolf element always felt like the perfect lens for writers to really dig into Remus's isolation, way more than the books ever had time for. I read one where Harry became a werewolf after the Department of Mysteries, and their dynamic wasn't just 'mentor and student' anymore—it was two people dealing with the same curse, but from different generations. Remus's emotional struggles in those stories often center on guilt. He sees this kid going through what he did, and he blames himself for not protecting him, but also for potentially passing on this 'tainted' view of lycanthropy. It gets into his fear of being a bad influence, which ties back to his own father-figure issues with Sirius and even Dumbledore.
Sometimes the exploration gets super introspective, like stories that spend chapters inside Remus's head during the full moon. The physical pain is a given, but it's the psychological erosion that gets me—the dread building up days before, the shame after, the constant calculation of distance from people he loves. In a 'werewolf Harry' scenario, that's doubled because he's trying to guide Harry through it while his own scars are still raw. You see a side of him that's less the gentle professor and more a tired, battle-worn man who's never known a peaceful month. It humanizes him in a brutal, beautiful way.
A lot of fics also use the pack instinct angle to examine his longing for family. With Harry as a packmate, that buried need for connection surfaces, sometimes messily. He might overstep, trying to be a parent substitute, or he might pull away too hard, afraid of that very instinct. It's a push-pull that lays bare all his abandonment issues.