I think the tendency to frame this as 'strategy versus heroic action' misses the point of the genre's best examples. True military sci-fi weaves them together until they're indistinguishable; the strategy is the heroic action, and the heroism is found in the application of cold, brutal calculus. Look at Lois McMaster Bujold's Vorkosigan saga, specifically books like 'The Vor Game' or 'Memory'. Miles Vorkosigan's most legendary moments aren't about him charging a trench with a plasma rifle. They're about him out-thinking a superior force, orchestrating a political gambit, or turning a logistical nightmare into a victory. His heroism is cerebral, born from a fragile body that forces him to win with his mind, and the strategic layers—military, political, social—are the entire battlefield.
A lot of newer readers flock to things like 'Starship Troopers' for the powered armor action, but Heinlein spends pages inside the classroom dissecting the philosophy of citizenship and the strategic logic of the mobile infantry's role. The heroism is almost bureaucratic, about duty within a system. For a darker, grittier take, Joe Haldeman's 'The Forever War' is a masterclass in showing how strategy and technology alienate the individual soldier. The 'heroic actions' there feel lonely, disconnected, and often futile against the vast strategic currents of a war spanning relativistic time. The brilliance is in how the strategic backdrop—time dilation—utterly reframes what heroism even means.
If you want that visceral, boots-on-the-deck feeling married to grand fleet strategy, you can't skip David Weber's 'Honor Harrington' series. The space battles are famously tactical, with detailed descriptions of missile salvos, energy weapon ranges, and gravitational wedges. Harrington's heroism isn't just personal bravery; it's her ability to make those split-second strategic calls that save her ship and crew. The books are practically textbooks on naval tactics set in space. Some find the detail overwhelming, but that's where the genre lives for me—in the wiring diagrams of the fictional warship, because understanding that is understanding the hero's toolkit.