Romans & histoires Good Reasons For Bad Feelings

At some point I hated myself for even sitting down to have this conversation with her because she's being very unreasonable. “I know that you're very upset with me, and you have every right to be, but I don't want you to dismiss any word that I say because your thinking doesn't come out of a good place. I genuinely feel bad for the things that I said, and I need you to know that I said those things because of my unstable mental health and not because I actually planned to say those words to you.”

Gonzalo asked curiously. "The real reason why I left was because I was hurt. At first, you treated me so bad that I honestly wanted you dead. Then, things got better between the two of us. I thought that's it. Finally, you and I having something good going on. Then, you went back on treating me badly again. I was hurt, and I blamed myself. Everytime you treat me badly, I blame myself."

[Maria] Some people say couples can only fight when they’re close enough to each other. I think that’s nonsense. People don’t need closeness to fight. People fight because they feel emotions, specifically, anger. And humans can feel angry at people they’re not even close to. You can get angry at someone on the internet, at a random stranger on the street, or at someone you’ve only heard stories about. So what exactly was making me angry? In retrospect, my feelings toward Damian all this time had been indifferent. I didn’t like him, but I didn’t dislike him either. I let him do whatever he wanted because I simply didn’t care enough.

"Why do you say it like it’s a bad thing?" "We...we just met a month ago. I shouldn't be feeling like this." Her voice was soft and almost shaky. The last real relationship Hannah had was not a good one. I was only around for the tail end of that relationship but from what she's told me, it was beyond horrible. It's one of the reasons she's the way she is with men. We both clearly had issues with men.

When I was a child, I watched those teen movies, where most of the characters were depressed and always angry. I would ask myself what made people depressed and angry. What was there to feel bad about? In my head then, I can only not be fine when mom or dad doesn’t give me the money to buy what I wanted. But where there’s the money, why not just lick some ice cream, or eat chocolates or whatever makes one feel better? But then I grew up and faced my own differences. And I realized you don’t necessary need a reason to be in a good or bad mood. One day, you just wake up angry and you find so many things or people to blame for being upset.

I turned to him immediately. “What doesn’t make sense?” “Why would she forgive him that quickly?” he said, nodding toward the screen. I frowned. “Because she loves him.” He gave me a look. “That’s not a reason. That’s an excuse.” I sat up slightly. “It is a reason.” “No, it’s not,” he replied calmly. “If someone hurts you, you don’t just forget it because of feelings.” I shook my head. “You don’t understand.” He looked at me. “Then explain.” I crossed my arms slightly, leaning back against the pillow.

" Why does this have to happen?” “I am not sure why M. But what I am sure of is how you should not blame yourself for this. Don't think that it's your fault for not trusting your feelings. There is a reason for this, God has plans. I know it hurts a lot and seeing you as this hurts me too,” he calmly said as he pats my back.

he said. “Okay, you don’t have to apologize to me. I understand all of you why you think badly of me. You are all funny, you are the ones who did something bad to me and now you are accusing me. In fact, you are the one who has the ability to do bad things. Why are you blaming me for what is happening now?”

He asked. "Yes. I dislike her now. Tho I don't hate her, but I still dislike her a lot. She is the main reason why I was so weak, why I felt lonely, why I was alone, why I was always so weak, why people looked down on me, why I was always hated by a lot of people who don't even know me. She is the reason for all the bad things that have ever happened to me, so I don't want her back in my life."