It's less about the cliché stuff like yelling and more about this quiet, terrifying certainty. They might adjust a cufflink while giving an order that ends a life, or their passion erupts in possessive, obsessive ways rather than grand romantic gestures. Think of it as emotional control being the ultimate power display. A boss who remains perfectly calm while his world burns, only for you to see the fury in the way he crushes a wine glass later in private. The passion isn't gentle; it's a claim. It's in the unbreakable eye contact, the way he knows everything about the person he's fixated on, and the brutal elimination of any threat. That controlled burn of intensity is way hotter than any explosive tantrum.
Honestly, I sometimes find the 'power' shown through lavish spending and violence a bit boring. The more interesting ones demonstrate power through influence—someone crossing a room to speak to them, a phone call that changes everything, the silent respect (or fear) they command without raising a voice. Their passion mirrors that: it's not declared, it's assumed. They don't ask, they take, believing their desire is justification enough. It creates this awful, compelling tension where you're rooting for a connection you know is fundamentally toxic.