How To Make Friends And Influence People Mga Nobela at Kwento

sagot ko. "But what if you can make her fall in love with you that way you can easily get close to her and you can also get her out of Tito's life. I'm just thinking you can't get close to her just like that so if you can gain her trust, pretend that you like her and make her think you're interested with her I guess things will be easier. Just my thoughts. Keep your friends close and your enemies closer," suggest niya.

Pero gumagawa pa din naman ako ng paraan para tuluyang makuha ang loob nila. Isa na doon ang pagkalap ko ng impluwensiyang gusto nilang mayroon ang mga papasok sa pamilya nila. I made a lot of friends from different field. At minsan ay kailangan kong ibaba ang pride ko para lang masiguro na makukuha ko ang loob ng mga taong iyon. I change myself into someone who isn’t really me to please everyone around him. But even though I manage to create that influence they want, they never intended to like me. That is when I realize that I can never please someone who doesn’t have the intention of letting me enter their life.

I just mumbled out of the blue. "A good query. I believe that before making new friends, we should look for some shared interests. You remember us being stranger and seeing each other for the first time but caught each other's attentions because of some shared interests? It is actually true that opposites attract most of the time though for you to be able to make real and genuine friends--- cause that's a very complicated thing--- you must know yourself first: whatever you like and dislike, how you think and how you see things."

“Salamat po, Ma’am. Sinusubukan ko lang mag-focus sa facts.” Tumango siya pero tumalim ang tingin. “Good. Pero tandaan, influence is not about being liked—it’s about being indispensable. At tandaan mo rin, may maiinggit. May maninira. May magbibigay ng maling payo.” Medyo kumabog dibdib ko. Pero I held her gaze. “Yes, Ma’am.” Wow. Compliment + warning = classic Doña move. Parang sinasabing ‘good job, hija, pero welcome to the lion’s den.’

“So, sino palang kikilos? Ako? E, hindi naman ako involve sa away niyo. Kung ayaw niya, edi, ikaw ang lumapit. Kausapin mo, makipag-ayos ka.” Bored ko siyang tiningnan dahil walang sense iyong sinabi niya. “Bahala siya sa buhay niya. Ba’t kailangan ako ang mag-effort, e, hindi naman ako ‘yung biglang tinupak.” Umiling si Felix sabay buntong-hininga. “’Yan ang hirap sa ‘yo, e. Ang taas-taas ng pride mo. Sige nga, mapuputulan ka ba ng kamay o paa ‘pag ikaw ang unang lumapit at makipag-usap sa kanya, ‘di ba hindi naman?... Sa madaling salita, walang mawawala sa ‘yo kung ikaw ang unang mag-e-effort, saka, napaka-worth-it magbaba ng pride kapag friendship na ang pinag-uusapan.”