You know, this situation reminds me of those dramatic reveals in soap operas where the timing has to be just right. I'd start by picking a quiet moment where you both can really talk without distractions. Maybe over dinner or during a walk—something that feels natural but intimate.
Instead of blurting it out, I’d ease into it by sharing how you’ve been feeling lately, both physically and emotionally. You could say something like, 'There’s something big on my mind, and it’s about us.' That way, you’re setting the stage for a heartfelt conversation rather than dropping a bombshell out of nowhere. The key is to make it feel like a shared moment, not just news he has to react to.