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“Of course.” He watches me carefully. Too carefully. “Everyone wants to hurt you,” I say, my voice trembling, “so they use me.” I wipe at my face, but the tears won’t stop. “They have my family… all because I fell in love with you.” The laugh turns into a sob halfway through. It hurts to breathe. It hurts to think. Why does love hurt like this? Why does loving someone feel like volunteering for destruction? “I didn’t ask for this,” I whisper. “I didn’t ask to be a pawn in your war.”

“I couldn't bring myself to loving someone else because I realized that I truly loved her but I couldn't come to accept her because of my fear of hurting her.” He continued as he raised his head. “Why would you even hurt someone you love?” I sneered as I rolled my eyes. “Why would I even hurt someone I love? Huh?” He repeated my question as he grinned. “Maybe because of how Jace is to you. Hurting you yet loving you secretly and seeing you with another drives him mad and makes him jealous. Maybe we have a thing.” “Hehe! Stop it already, Lark. You're no way like Jace.”

Daniel loves her the way she loves him and for them to get married and be comfortable and happy. Loving someone who you know can never love you back the way you love them hurts, and you know what hurts the most? You keep getting your hopes high, waiting for them, fighting for them hoping they'll love you one day when you know deep down that day is never going to come. It hurts so much and makes one go crazy to the extent you would want to do anything to make that person yours even though it means hurting another person. That initially makes you a villain. “Tessa” she heard her dad call.

but when I was with Gary he made it seem like love and hurt go together. I will say that it took me a lot of strength and willpower to get away from him because as much as he was hurting me I started to enjoy it and that is when I knew that I had to get away from him. I spent a lot of time trying to convince myself that it was the right thing to do and for about a decade my decision has changed drastically. I now know that loving someone doesn't have to be painful and that is all because of Alexander. He showed me how good it was to be appreciated and cherished.

Lorenz advised as if he had already experienced being in a relationship. I didn’t want to be hurt but I knew the fact that when you love someone, it comes with pain. When you love someone, it would not always be about rainbows, and it comes with rains. When you love someone, it comes with tears. I wanted to understand the situation and give Liam a chance to explain himself, but now? I couldn’t do it. I still couldn’t talk to him. Everything hurts now. Every damn little thing, and I just wanted to freshen up a little… away from him.

“It makes you human. And strong enough to acknowledge your pain instead of burying it.” Silence wrapped around us again. I reached for a cookie, not because I was hungry but because I needed something, anything, to hold onto. “I love him,” I said suddenly. “I really do. But every time I look at him now, I see Luca’s eyes. And I hate myself for it.” Calista leaned forward. “Loving someone doesn’t mean you won’t ever be hurt by them. Or by their past. It just means you’re willing to work through it, anytime you’re ready.”

I'm grateful she doesn't love me and doesn't shower her best love and affection on me, because if she did, I'd be damned to be whipped to beg her to come back, whatever of whether I have to sleep outside her house. Her love taught me that it was common and I was so shallow. That is why we should be grateful to those who have hurt and abandoned us. They may cause us great pain or suffering, but at the very least they put an end to it. At the very least, they decided to stop hurting us because if we continue to let them hurt us, we would eventually lose our self. For the pain they’ve caused, little or big, there is no exception, it’s still painful.

I promised him bitterly. That's true. I know it's hard to explain about I still love him, but I am over him. It is similar with you love the person but you already gave up and there is no will to carry on. So even if I see him I will be fine. So a person is hurt because it does not fulfill the expectation. That's the bottom line. If you try to love without expectation, often you won't feel pain. Because you know from the beginning what you are getting into.

But I am the one who is hurting the person who saved me. "A-And I'm really sorry, Dianna..." Another tear fell from my eyes. I held him in his arms again. "Sorry because I can't fulfill my promise anymore. I love you so much, you know that. But it hurts so much." "It's painful to see that the person you love still can't completely forget the man who just hurt him. It's painful to love a woman who doesn't seem to be done loving the first man she loved more than me." "It's hard to compete. It's so damn hard, Dianna."

My brain kept coming up with excuses for his behavior. He thinks I cheated. He’s frustrated that I couldn't give him a child. His mother is manipulating him. And even when I ran out of those, I still couldn’t hate him. And I hated it. I think there was something about my heart being unable to unlove someone I had once loved, no matter how badly they hurt me. Was this normal? Or perhaps the real question was, was this healthy? “You’re not going to lose me, Margo,” I assured, pulling her into a hug.