Why Is My Boyfriend Being Distant Novels & Stories

But sex doesn’t really seem to be our problem though, he’s been a little cold and closed off, he even has the mind-link blocked most of the time. Maybe I should go home for a visit. It has been a few weeks since I have seen mommy and daddy and I really haven’t gotten to know Eli’s mate Cadence. They say distance makes the heart grow fonder, so maybe if we spent a little time apart things will get better. There has to be something wrong with our bond, every couple I know can barely stand to be apart from one another.

I know we gave just got together but I haven’t seen him mention his family not even for once and that is nothing but disturbing . As much as I would like to stay off offsite they had gotten nothing to do with me , I thought that it was also time that I asked my boyfriend why he far never visited his family or why none of his family had bothered to come see him nor after staying away from mother long while . I knew that is going to absurd and throw him off balance , but I needed answer to my questions and I had to make sure that I was literally making the right choice at this moment . This time my phone vibrated under me .

I can only wish that we last longer than my last relationship. Arriving at the set, my eyes spotted Odette and her boyfriend. Although sat by each other, they seem very distant. They are not even looking into each other's eyes, there is no fire at all. I thought, love is sweeter the second time around? Does that not apply to the two of them? "You okay?" my boyfriend asks, giving my hand a little squeeze as I smile in return. "Yes, sorry. I got distracted." "By what?" His eyes followed the direction of my gaze, then I hear him release a deep sigh. "Should we just turn around?"

I was half awake because I felt someone hugging me. “Shhh” he whispered. “Let me hug you wife. I miss you. I miss my sweet and caring wife.” He said while hugging me tightly. I just let him be. After that night, I became cold and distant. We haven't made love -- or I should say sex since then. I didn’t know why but I suddenly become so cold and aloof. I can’t force myself to act as if everything is okay because we both know that it's not. That’s why I chose to be cold and distant.

He came home late, left before dawn, and left the penthouse feeling too big, too empty. Daniel broke through my thoughts again. “So, how’s married life? Is Liam still broody like he swallowed a thundercloud, or is he softening under your wifely charms?” I snorted into my coffee. “He’s… Liam.” “That bad, huh?” He tilted his head, his eyes sharp in a way people underestimated. Beneath the jokes, my brother always noticed more than he let on. I sighed. “He’s distant. I don’t know. I thought maybe living together would mean… something different. But it feels like he’s avoiding me.”

I sat up slowly with a frustrated sigh. “I have a boyfriend,” i reminded herself out loud. Unfortunately, my heart sounded unconvinced. Things with Chris had been strange lately. Not terrible. But not the same either. We had apologized to each other after the argument days ago. Chris admitted he overreacted. I admitted i got defensive. But even after apologizing—something still felt… distant. Our last conversation was yesterday night. Short. Awkward. Careful. Like two people trying not to step on broken glass.

“Jenny, you’re the only friend I need.” Her frown deepened, almost tragic, before my phone buzzed in my pocket. Expecting a tutoring message, I pulled it out. But unfortunately, It wasn’t tutoring. It was Aaron. My long-distance boyfriend since high school. Recently, he had been distant, cold. My chest tightened like a fist had wrapped around it. Jenny leaned closer, curiosity sparkling. “Ooo, is that loverboy?” I angled the phone away. “Don’t call him that.” “He’s your boyfriend! You’ve been together forever.”

“ We only did it a week back and I might have acted out because I was embarrassed but…” “ Stop! I don't want to hear about your sex life,” Ryan stopped me from proceeding. “ Then how are we supposed to trace the cause of his being distant?” I tilted my head. “ I for one know that it has nothing to do with the sex you two had,” he was a little too sure. “ Why are you so sure?” I raised a brow. “ Because I'm a guy,” he said confidently. “ And what am I supposed to be?” I frowned.

It just was not in my disposition to fling or informally participate in sensual pursuits with people I just managed to meet at the bar. After I started getting off the office today, I regarded paying a surprise visit to my boyfriend. Kyle and I may have been in a long-distance relationship for four years, and our relationship was fortunately still very much in good shape. Given the distance, there was really no reason for us to grow cold toward each other, and distance, I genuinely thought, will only manage to make our hearts grow fonder and shaped it to become more emotionally stable.

He loved me. Even as I repeated those words in my head, though, I couldn’t help but begin to chew my lip nervously. We had been so… distant lately. We hadn’t even really slept in the same bed for more than a few hours in weeks, and we hadn’t made love for even longer than that. Maybe he was beginning to stray. Maybe he needed a form of emotional support that I just wasn’t giving him. Out of the corner of my eye, the notification light on my phone blinked again. I cursed under my breath this time, practically throwing a half-washed plate back down into the soapy water so hard that the water splashed up onto the counter.