You know, 2nd person POV is such a specific taste that finding books that truly nail it is a real hunt. I'm always on the lookout for ones that pull you in and don't let the 'you' feel gimmicky.
My top recommendation has to be 'If on a winter's night a traveler' by Italo Calvino. It's the absolute classic for this. The whole book is structured around 'you,' the Reader, trying to read a book, and it's this wonderful, twisting meta-narrative that somehow feels incredibly personal.
For a more recent and visceral experience, 'The Fifth Season' by N.K. Jemisin uses 2nd person in sections to devastating effect. It's not the whole book, but the chapters written that way are central to understanding the protagonist's trauma and dissociation. It's less about making you be the character and more about making you feel the weight of their history in a way third person couldn't achieve. The narrative distance collapses completely.
There's also 'Bright Lights, Big City' by Jay McInerney, a staple of 80s literature. The 'you' there feels like a mix of self-address and accusation, perfectly matching the protagonist's coked-out, self-destructive haze. It creates this weird intimacy where you're both inside his head and judging him from the outside simultaneously. I find myself recommending it more for the mood than the plot, honestly.