Learning To Love Yourself Mga Nobela at Kwento

Hindi ko na inabala pang tingnan siya pabalik although I could feel her annoyed stares at me. “Noong nakaraan lang ‘di ba sinabi mo sa aking self-love ka na? After mo yatang ma-brokenhearted sa lalaking kinakantahan ka kamo, tapos nangako ka pang papasok ka na kamong kumbento… pero ‘di mo naman ginawa. Last mo na kamo ‘yon, bakit umisa ka pa?” “Nako, Lucile. Gan’yan na ba ‘yong definition nila ng ‘love yourself’? Lima-lima ka-talking stage-”

Marami ang nasaktan, kahit ang sariling pamilya nito na una pa lang ay tutol na sa relasyon nito't kay Lara. When you fall in love, you should not only think about your own feelings but also the feelings of the person you love and those who love you both. Love should not be selfish, it should be selfless. And that's what she learned from what happened in her life and in her family. Even though what she hoped for with her father did not happen, being with her sister and knowing from her love for her was enough for her to say that she was contented with them. Nagising si Leila dahil sa mabigat na bagay na nakadagan sa kanyang hita.

Because if you’re brave enough to say goodbye, life will reward you with a new hello. I really love Alex before. Kaya naiiyak ako. Dahil masakit. May mga alaalang pilit kong kinakalimutan pero bumabalik. Until Yuan teaches me how to love myself. Doon ko tuluyang nabitawan ang alaala ng kahapon. Ang pag ibig na hindi natupad dahil maling tao ang aking minahal. Back in School days...

Sobrang nagsisi siya kung bakit nakinig siya sa mga maling sinasabi ng ina. "Wala ka na ring pinagkaiba sa iyong ina na gahaman at makasarili. Sakim sa karangyaan at pagmamahal." Usig ng kunsensya ni Janice sa sarili. "Hindi totoo iyan..!" Biglang nayakap ni Janice ang dalawang tuhod habang nakaupo sa gitna ng kama. Pilit na kinukontra ang sarili na parang may bumubulong sa kaniya.

"Don't think that you did it because of having a lot of people's sympathy.Maybe it'll help but it won't really help you float for the longest time.This is your achievement,you have to claim it ,and if you happen claim it,be sure that you are so grateful about it,claim it with all your heart" It was such a nice talk in between u.I am glad to hear some nice words from them .Nanahimik ang nag- iingay na kaluluwa ko na baka nga naging mabait at maawain lang sila sa akin.In te end mas lalo lang lumakas ang loob ko at naisip na ginagawa lang iyon ni Sheylla para saktan at sirain lang ako.Indeed,words will make you crumple at kapag naglagi s iyo ang negativity na sinabi nila hindi magiging malayo n

“So, sa loob ng sampung taong magsasama kayo ay mananatili kang tahimik na nasasaktan sa patuloy niyang pakikiapid sa iba, mananatili kang walang pakealam sa ginagawa niya sa buhay niya, at mananatiling nagpapakababa dahil hinahayaan mo siyang tratuhin ka ng ganiyan? And then what? After ten years, you will end up crying kasi maghihiwalay kayo.” “We can still be friends, though.” “Oh, what a relief!” Connie uttered sarcastically. “I’m… still hoping Cayson would learn to love me—” “I hope so, too. Rosenda Marie. Dahil gusto kong makita kang totoong masaya sa taong mahal mo.” Ibinaba ni Connie ang hawak na mug sa coffee table at hinarap siya. Tinitigan siya nito nang diretso sa mga mata, saka

"But I can't offer you anything not even myself as I'm too broken. I don't know if I can even reciprocate your feelings in a way how normal people does." "I don't need you to offer me anything, I just need you to learn and love yourself more, to appreaciate yourself more than others. And if that happens I'll be the happiest man." His words are too good to be true. Hindi niya tuloy maiwasang mapaiyak. Tuloy tuloy na umagos ang kanyang luha dahil sa tuwa sa narinig niyang saad nito ngunit kaakibat naman nito ang pait at sakit ng katotohanan na kailangan niyang harapin.

Sumuko at tumigil ka para sa sarili mong kapakanan. Para sa susunod na laban maging malakas ka at kaya mo ng harapin ang lahat ng sakit na pagdadaanan mo sa buhay. It's not selfish if you choose to love yourself. It's the way to improve or enhance yourself. Matapos kong pakalmahin ang aking sarili. Tumayo ako sa pagkakaupo ko at lumabas ng kwarto. Like what I expect, nakita ko si Bryson na nakaupo sa loob ng kaniyang opisina dito sa bahay.

"Pinagbigyan kita sa relasyon niyo dahil alam kong masaya ka. At alam kong totoo ang nararamdaman mo sa lalaking iyon. Ngunit bukod doon, gusto kong matuto ka." "Gusto kong matuto kang magmahal ngunit sa tamang paraan. Iyong pagmamahal na hindi nagtitiis. Hindi nagbubulag-bulagan. Hindi sinasarado ang utak sa lahat ng posibilidad. Iyong pagmamahal na totoo at umaapaw ngunit hindi sa puntong nauubos ka," she held my arm. "I want you to learn how to love someone without disregarding the love and respect you have for yourself. If this love is destructive and tormenting you, then maybe it isn't love, anak," she caressed my cheek.

No one else. It's all started with ourselves not with anyone. If you love yourself then anyone can accept you because in the first place you already accept yourself. How can others love you if you itself can't accept who you are? What I'm pointing is mas madaling matatanggap ng iba kung sino ka kung ikaw mismo ay tanggap ang sarili mo. Judgemental people, Their opinion is not important, the important is the lesson you have learned. Be who you are for yourself not to please everyone.