Learning To Love Yourself Novels & Stories

This is the consequence of that forbidden love. Let me heal myself. Let me choose myself now. Let me love myself. Now I know my mistake, I keep finding the love that I can't give to myself. I keep finding it to someone else kaya ganito 'yong impact kasi nahanap ko na at no'ng nawala na ay kailangan ko na naman 'yong hanapin pero ngayon hindi na sa iba. I must love myself first before loving others. How ironic, right? Nagmamahal ka ng ibang tao pero 'yong sarili mo hindi mo mamahal.

I just want you to talk him regarding this issue. "We already did. Hindi lang naging maganda. I need to stop seeing him kahit ilang araw lang." I cannot remind him his feelings he never knew. I cannot teach him love, because it is self-discovery. Gaya kung papaano ko iyon natutunan. Love is making someone happy even if it is uncomfortable. Love is not demanding for equality, because who cares when the one you love is happy?

"Pero alam mo kung ano ang hindi mo dapat na kalimutan? Iyon ang mga aral na natutunan mo sa lahat ng ito at ang pagmamahal mo sa sarili mo. Love yourself first before you love others. It’s not called selfishness. It is called self-love and self-reservation because how can you love the other people when your love for yourself is not strong enough? How can you love other people when your love for yourself is easily shaken and easily broken?” “Kung magmamahal ka ay dapat na magtira ka pa rin para sa sarili mo. Kung magmamahal ka ay please, mahalin mo pa rin ang sarili mo. Magtira ka ng pagmamahal para sa sarili mo at hindi iyong ibubuhos mo ang lahat ng mayroon ka at pagmamahal mo para sa isan

Hindi 'yan basta-basta darating para pahirapan ka, dumarating ang mga pagsubok na kinatatakutan natin upang tayo ay mas lalong tumatag. Marami rin akong inaayawan sa sarili. Sometimes I asked myself if am I worth it? Mahal ko ba ang sarili ko? But then I realized maybe the reason why you struggle with loving yourself is because you don't give yourself credit for the things you do as often as you should. Maybe it's because you think loving oneself is about grand gestures when it's actually about the little things. Maybe it’s about that one movie you watched alone because well, all your friends backed out the last moment but you really wanted to watch it. Maybe it’s about that new hairstyle yo

At that time, my classmates answered their ambition to be engineers, doctors, public servants and etcetera. My answer that time was bizzare. Peace of mind. I'll do everything in order to have peace of mind. For myself. To reduce toxicity in this world. I always thought I was selfish but no. It was for my sake. To be motivated on the things you want to do for yourself and the society, you have to love yourself. To love yourself is to find the peace of mind you need so nothing can stop you in pursuing for the things you want and for the world.

Pero kung tatanungin ako ngayon, wala akong pinagsisisihan. Xyvier taught me many things. He also let me know the difference between being completely happy and being just happy. Magkaiba pala 'yon. He showed me the opposite sides of everything. He made me realize how far can I go to being strong. Pinakita niya sakin na kaya ko palang lampasan 'yung mga limitations ko. Most of all, Xyvier taught me to love myself. And it was the best gift I ever received from him.

"Once you fall in love dont forget the reason why you love that person, because everything comes with a reason." I actually don't really know the reason, In just a blink of my eye.. I love you. "If I really love that person I think there's no reason to it, love is so powerful that even the smartest scientist doesn't know the real meaning of it." Panandaliang katahimikan ang bumalot sa amin. "Sige, Goodnight na, matutulog na ako." Napa lunok ako. "T-teka!" Ayan! Takte ka talaga self sabing 'wag kang mauutal sakanya e. "Ano, ahm.."

"What?.." "Self-destruction. You look at yourself as a bad person in their life because of your choices. A monster. You are thinking that everyone thinks that you are a cruel person. You are blaming yourself even you are also a victim of the situation. I want you to look to yourself, not as a demon imprinted in your head. Don't think that you deserve all the pain inside you because of the choices that you made. You chose those because you love them and you care for them. You'll be never in peace if you cannot love yourself..." Love yourself? How?

Ninanamnam ang katahimikan ng kapaligiran niya. "Pero mas bilib ako sa mga taong nagagawang makatayo At bumangon mula sa pag kakaligmok para mahalin ang sarili. Sabi sa nga sa kanta ni Selena Gomez, I needed to lose you to love me. To be able to be happy you have to lose him/her for you to learn to love your self. Minsan ang Pag kawala ng mga taong mahal natin ang mag tuturo sa atin para ang sarili naman natin ang mahalin natin. That's what Allijha Jane thought to me. Sabi niya kung mag mamahal ako dapat mas mahal ako, para kung dapuan man kami ng mabigat na problema sa pag sasama matatakot siyang mawala ako." May ngiti sa labing ibinaling ni Alice ang paningin kay Joshua na titig na titig n

Pinaghalong luha at dugo ang tumutulo sa sahig mula sa aking mukha. Sa dami ng kasalanan na nagawa ko sa hindi lang sa batas kundi pati na rin sa diyos, sa dami ng pagkakamali na ginawa ko sa buhay siya lang ang tama pero pinili pang mawala! Siguro ito ang kabayaran sa lahat-lahat na ginawa ko ang maagang bawiin sa akin ang babaeng pinakamamamahal ko! Ang taong nagparamdam sa akin na mahalaga ako, ka tanggap-tanggap ako at minahal ako ng buong-buo sa kabila ng pagiging gago ko, sa kabila ng lahat-lahat! She teach me how to love! I learned what’s loves about. How to love and how to treat people around you, with or without value in your life.