Advice For Broken Hearted Friend Romane & Geschichten

he screamed in my chest while crying. And my heart broke hearing him saying that, I rubbed his back to give him some comfort.. "I know.. I know.. just cry it out.. everything's gonna be alright, you're gonna be okay." naiiyak kong sabi habang masuyong hinahagod ang likod niya at kinakalma siya. He hugged me tightly as if his life depends on it, and my heart broke for my best friend. "Don't.. don't.. leave me.. Anj."

I added. "I'm sorry," he replied. I felt like my heart was broken when I heard his answer. "We can't be together again," he added. ---- Will you share this story with your friends?

"Cyrene, ikaw ha, kapag ganyan ka tahimik at napapainom, usually may mabigat na dahilan ‘yan. Brokenhearted ba yan?" Napatawa ako nang mahina, pilit kong pinagaan ang boses. "Hindi naman po, tita. Wala po akong boyfriend, paano po ako ma-heartbroken?" "Eh, hindi naman kailangan may label para masaktan, diba?" nakangiting sagot ni Tita, pero ramdam ko sa tono niya seryoso siya. Basta kung may bumabagabag sa’yo, wag mong iinumin, ha? Alam mong nandito lang ako."

Nagtatanong ang mga mata. “What? The best way to heal a broken heart is to lash out on alcohol, it’s effective, really.” Inakbayan siya nito ay iginiya patungo sa nag-iisang bar sa kanilang lugar.

“Do you love her?” “Noon deretso kong nasasabi na mahal ko siya. Pero ngayon, hindi na ako sigurado. Dahil ang tunay na pagmamahal, mabuti ang hangarin. Tutulungan ka nitong maging mabuting tao. Hindi ka kukunsintihin sa paggawa ng masama. O masiyahan man lang na ginagawa ninyo yon. Sa kaso namin ni Tatiana, tandem kami. At kapag ako ang nakasakit ng ibang tao, titiyakin din niya na mananahimik yon at matatakot. We are both…broken souls. Wala kaming patutunguhan. At dahil doon, I feel so sorry for her. I could have helped her kung aware lang ako na mali ang ugnayan namin.”

At habang lumilipas ang panahon, mas lalo akong nawawala sa sarili. I can’t do it anymore. Feels like my other half has been lost with me. Wala rin akong ganang kumain, kaya ilang beses na akong nasesermonan ni Baste. Even our quizzes wala akong maisagot na maayos. Pinatawag nga ako sa mga office ng prof namin to asked if there’s something going on with me. What to say? Because I am brokenhearted? Brokenhearted.

My heart didn't let my brain choose! My heart is so unfair! My heart is torture! I hate my heart! "Let's not talk about him," I said with a frustrated tone. I love him so much but he has hurt me too much. She chuckled "So, that's it? Kaya pala sunod-sunod ang pag-aaya mo mag-inom for the past days dahil broken ka? Oh! My favorite cousin is broken!" she teased. I rolled my eyes, She let a little chuckle escape again. Broken?

"I'm so tired, tired of faking my smile to everyone I know, tired of hiding how hurt am I. I'm sad, angry, mad, and disappointed. Ni wala kaming maayos na break up, ni hindi man lang ako nakapag paliwanag sakaniya na dapat wala siyang ikagalit kasi wala naman talaga akong alam.." "Kuya, I'm really hurt whenever I see you hurt like that. Please fix yourself. Hindi pwedeng humarap ka sakaniya ng gan'yan. I'll help you na makausap mo siya but promise mo na kapag nakausap mo na siya ay hindi mo na sila guguluhin pa ng pamilya niya.." °°°

Napabuntong-hininga, pumayag ang matatag na lalaki. “Kung wala ka sa mood para magtrabaho, hayaan mo akong maging pansamantalang kapalit mo, okay? Alam kong ang isang broken heart ay nangangailangan ng mahabang panahon para maayos." Mabilis na na-detect ni Alejandro ang manipis na nakatalukbong jab sa kanyang mga salita. "Walang nagtanong sayo na timbangin mo sa isang nakakatawang pangungusap, babae. Wala ako sa mood para pagtawanan ka."

She was blinking multiple times and thinking deeper. "You should never settle for less, sining. I don't personally know your friends, but I know you enough. And based on my experience, don't get friends that find convenience in you. Never settle for less is also applicable for friendship, believe me. You should never be a part of an option; you're supposed to be there as well, regardless of the circumstances. Don't be too naive in life; it will just hurt you. Don't be too kind as well. Kindness sometimes doesn't do you any good."