Stages Of Courtship Novels & Stories

B-bakit mo naman gagawin yon? "Courtship is our way to know if this could work. Hindi naman natin malalaman agad na gusto natin ang isa't isa kung hindi natin susubukan. This is a win win situation for both of us. If it is a yes, then we will be happy, if it is a no, then, at least we had good times." Tumaas ang aking kilay. Ganoon ba kadali iyon? "If you will like me, then you have to marry me."

So, I organize a feeding program in a small community in Pampanga. "Can I court you, Kelsea?" I asked my wife with full of hope in my voice. Even though we were already married, I still want to court her. I wanted to show her that I was worth to be her husband. So, I started courting her, and I could say that we are getting closer. Lumilipas rin ang mga araw na nagiging malapit kami at mas nakikilala 'ko siya ng lubusan. But even if we're close, it still feels so far. I can still feel the distance, the depth of each string.

Masyado pang maaga para lagyan ng pangalan ang nararamdaman niya. There should be stages. Getting to know each other. Getting to know more. Balancing. Then fall in love. Is that it? But how did he knew? He's never been in love before. He can't even tell if he had given it a try liking to someone in opposite sex. But with Glen...With his wife now...He is completely out of balance. His priorities begin to crumble and yet he's fine with it. Hindi siya naiinis kahit nagkakagulo na ang schedules niya.

Pagpipilit ni Lucas. Tumawa si Chloe. “Infatuation o attraction ba ang tinutukoy mo? Natural lang na magkaroon ng novelty sa isang relasyon, pero ang mahalaga ay kung ano ng mangyayari sa oras na mawala na ang spark.” Natigilan si Lucas, sandaling nawalan ng sasabihin. Kahit na alam niyang mayroong novelty sa mga relasyon, naiintindihan niya ang importansya ng kasundo na stage.

“Alright? You mean? It's okay with you if you court me? Ang alam nila tayo na. Ayos talaga sa'yo? Our relationship is an arrangement so it would be a bother if—” “If you want it that way...if you want us to go through that phase, then I'll court you.” Muli akong napapikit. I massaged my nose bridge. How hard is this. We are already in a relationship and he will court me? Magkarelasyon lang naman kami sa mata ng mga tao pero sa totoo, hindi pa. Sa amin lang na liligawan pa lang niya ako. Doon din naman siguro ang kahihinatnan no'n. Pero, gusto ko pa ring magpaligaw.

“Hmm?” “Alam kong hindi madali ’yung pinasok niyong dalawa. Pero alam mo, hindi lahat ng kasal nagsisimula sa pagmamahal. Minsan, respeto lang muna. Pag-aaruga. At pag dumating ’yung tamang oras, dahan-dahan, nagiging pagmamahal na rin.” Tumingin ako sa kanya. “Gusto ko pong maniwala na posible ’yon.”

Wala naman akong nararamdaman na parang napipilitan lang siya makisama sakin. The days we spent together on the island na yon, made me feel closer to him. Mas nakilala ko siya. Hindi siya ganun ka cold tulad ng iniisip ko sa kanya. He also learned new things about me. Para kami yung mag couple na una lang nagkausap dahil ang tanungan ay puro favorite. Like kung ano ang favorite kong color,food and all things. Ang kinaibahan nga lang kasal na kami, bago kami mapunta sa stage na yon. It’s like kung may step by step ang relationship. We skip a lot of stages.

It's the 65th day and 35 more days before the bet is over. "Do I still need to finish this bet?" I asked myself while holding and looking at this paper in my hands. I wrote 10 thing that I need to do to, Make that Zack guy fall in love with me and then break his heart within a hundreds days: 1. Make sure you're courting him.✓ 2. Know his biggest turn on.✓ 3. Make them feel appreciated and special.✓ 4. Make a name for yourself, do something that they will remember.✓

Ayaw na niyang makaramdam pa muli ng ganitong kasakit na damdamin. She is new to being in love, pero bakit naman binuhos lahat agad ang mga stages of falling in love. Hindi man lang siya na inform na ganito pala kasakit yon. She called Paul saying na pumapayag na siya sa blind date niya. Pero may pagka alanganin pa rin siya rito. Kahit na sinasabi ni Paul that the guy like her the moment he saw her picture hindi pa rin siya kumbinsido.

Hindi makapaniwalang tanong ko sa kaniya. Umiling ito sa akin. "Not yet. I know you had a fiance once, but you never experience proper courtship. I will court you first to earn your yes, but that's not the end of my courtship because I will court you until I can't no longer use my knees. I will make you experience all the things you never experience before," madamdaming saad nito sa akin dahilan para hindi ko mapigilang tumulo ang luha ko.