Advice For Broken Hearted Friend Romane & Geschichten

Kaso medyo oa na ang reaksyon nila minsan. "Shut up. Your crush is broken hearted. She needs someone to cheer her up." "Send me the location." "Hideout," sagot ko at walang babalang ibinaba ang tawag. I'll be a cupid this time. My bestfriend deserve a better man. And he is the best choice, my brother.

Bakit sa ganitong paraan binawi ang akala ko para saakin na. Nagtiwala at Nagmahal lang naman ako.. I love him with a broken heart, but later,it fixed,he fixed me but only in a short period of time because at last, it will remain broken forever ..I was just to stúpid thinking that we can be together, that we both deserve love after all the heartache and pain we brought to each other..Maybe the destiny make its way to rubbed on my face that this isn't going to work.That I need to give up.

Tumabi sya saakin at yinakap ako. "It's okay to cry. Alam ko na ma-pride kang tao pero bestfriend mo naman ako kaya babaan mo muna 'yang pride mo ngayong araw. You're still a person, Arabella. It's okay to have emotions. It's okay to be hurt. It's okay to cry. Tapos kapag tapos ka nang umiyak, pwede na mo nang sabihin saakin ang lahat. You can share me the pain you feel. You can trust me about anything and I will never leave you until you feel better."

And in doing so, she had isolated herself, she had deepened her grief, she had allowed her pain to fester. “Jelai,” I said, my voice soft, my tone filled with empathy, “Naiintindihan ko 'yung pag aalala mo sa akin. And I appreciate it. Sobra. Pero ikaw, you should think of yourself, too. You shouldn’t have kept this from me. You’re my friend, and friends are there for each other, no matter what. I would have been there for you. I would have helped you. You didn’t have to bear this burden alone.”

Bigo ako. I felt like I'm broken. Na sinaktan ko lang ang sarili ko kasi tinanggihan ko 'yong tao na gusto kong makasama. Napatitig ako sa bote ng beer na nasa harap ko. Ang daming nagsasabi na kapag broken hearted ka ay makakatulong ang pag-inom ng alak para makalimot, malibang at mawala ang sakit na nararamdaman mo.

Hindi ko alam kung bibilhin niya yung palusot ko. " Broken hearted ka pala ngayon, kaya pala matamlay ka noong tumawag ako sayo kanina. Hayaan mo makakahanap ka din ng sayo. Malay lang natin nasa paligid lang pala natin ang para sayo." Ang galing niya mag comfort ng feelings. Pero masakit pa rin. Parang nawalan na ako ng gana ituloy ang mga plano ko.

Ang tanong ko sakanya na kunwari ay hindi ako masaya sa tono ng pananalita ko but deep inside in my heart and mind ay nagsisimula na sa pag-celebrate sa tuwa. "Oh bakit hindi ka na naman masaya diyan? Hindi ba ito ang hinihintay mo na araw, ang magkita ulit kayong dalawa at magkausap para makapagpaliwag ka sakanya? Huwag mo na sayangin ang pagkakataon na ito para makapaghingi ng sorry sa nagawa mo na pananakit sakanya anak ah." Ang payo ni mudra saka siya sumubo ng pagkain. Napaisip tuloy ako if she's still love me after I broke her heart.

Patuloy pa rin siya sa paghagulhol kaya't hindi ko maiwasang mapailing sa sitwasyon niya. "Just cry okay? It will help you heal. Just make sure that this would be the last time you're gonna cry over that jerk hmm?" tanging iyak lang ulit ang naisagot niya sa akin. Mindy has again, for the hundredth time been dumped by his boyfriend. It came as no surprise to me at all because the guys was a total jerk, real jerk. God! I don't even know why Mindy is still pushing herself to a man who never see her as a gem. I guess that's what love really does, it makes us crazy.

Sabi niya pa kaya malungkot akong napangiti. "Huwag please!" Nalulungkot kong sabi sa kaniya. "Ayokong ikulong mo ang sarili mo ganiyang isipin. I want you to have someone who's willing to love you the way you love her.. and that girl is not me. You don't need to settle for a girl who is broken and already has a child, in short a girl who is not me." Sabi ko at tumingin sa baba. "If that time come, promise me that I will still be your bestfriend and that no one will replace me in your heart. Promise me that there will still be a space for me." Sabi ko nalang sa kaniya.

Nagbunyi naman ako secretly kasi sign iyon na sumuko na siya sa pang-uusisa sa akin. “Hindi ko pa alam, insan, e...” “Basta nandito lang ako para sa ‘yo. If you need my help and service sa mga usaping pag-ibig, nandito lang ako palagi. You can always tap on me. Support kita kahit anong desisyon, but you have to make sure that it will make you always safe and happy,” I reminded her as I smiled at her assuringly. “If he breaks your heart, I’ll break his face, too.”