Standing Up For Yourself Romane & Geschichten

Its all about how you manage yourself putting off all the negativity around you back to theirselves without them knowing it. And working here is no different in my field before. Nung una ngang pag pasok ko sobrang daming challenges kong na- encounter syempre toxicity is everywhere, but the point is don't be driven in their opinion to be seen and validated. Life is always like a battle field but you don't need to always put up a fight to be understood. The only thing you should do is to be good to yourself. At ayon dahil nag momoment talk ako sa sarili ko muntik na akong mabangga sa sliding door ng Finance Head Office.

If you want to be respected by other people respect yourself by means of proving that you can survive without them LUCY PEARL POINT OF VIEW Maaga ulit akong gumising at naligo at nagbihis. Yes, maghahanap ulit ako ng kompanya na pwede kong pasukan. Nabigo ako kahapon pero hindi ibig sabihin noon na mabibigo ulit ako ngayon. Hindi ako titigil hanggang hindi ko na-prove sa sarili ko ang kakayahan ko. Same as yesterday, nag-effort akong mag-ayos at maglagay ng kolorete sa mukha para maging presentable.

"Ang matigas ay madaling mabasag, Anne. Bukod sa pagiging matatag, kailangan mo ring matutong protektahan ang sarili mo. Matutong harapin ang mga tusong kalaban nang may taktika. Panoorin mo silang umarte, ngunit ikaw mismo ay dapat na may sariling plano. Kung ako ang nasa sitwasyon mo, maghahanda ako nang mas maaga. Hindi ko hahayaan na gamitin ni Tita Felyn ang opinyon ng publiko laban sa akin bago ko pa maisip kung paano lalaban."

sabay ngiti na nakatulong para mabawasan ang bahagya ang iniisip ko. Di ko alam pero biglang namula ang mukha ko. "W-Who needs your protection?" Iniwas ko ang tingin ko dahil nakaramdam ako ng hiya sa di malamang dahilan. Marahan ko siyang tinulak. "I can protect myself."

She is not my responsibility because she is of legal age. "Yaman din lamang naman na may pang-demanda ka pala, ano pa ang ginagawa mo rito? Go ahead, Reina, magdemanda ka at maghihintay ako." This is actually the first time that I am standing up for myself and keeping my ground against Reina, and in all honesty, it feels good to stand up to her for once. "Kung wala ka nang sasabihin pa na iba, makakaalis ka na. At kung sino man ang nagturo sa’yo kung nasaan ako, tell that person that I was finally able to get rid of you, and I have no plans to take you back in."

" I quickly stood up and left him in the meeting room. Kailangan kong kumalma para makapag-isip ako ng maayos ng solusiyon. Hindi ko ibababa ang pride ko at hihingi ng tulong sa mga taong kinasusuklaman ko. Kahit anong gawin nilang pagpupumilit sa akin ay hindi ko pa rin susundin ang kagustohan nila.

I choose to be me, the version of me who takes care of herself from the invasion of these ill mannered people in the society. I don't want to be like that. Nor, letting myself to become bad na kayang magsalita ng masasakit laban sa ibang tao. It's because, I'm not like that. I'm kind, yet not enough to be called perfect. I stood up for myself. I fight for myself and doesn't let anyone to insult me as they wish. Pero, itong si Sir? Siya ang kauna-unahang tao na naging harsh sa'kin. Hindi naman all the time, pero every few hours siguro.

A family who's ready to defend and support me. Biglang pumasok sa isip ko si Lucien. Himigpit lalo ang yakap ko kay dad. I heard dad chuckled because of what I did. "Kalma anak," Lumayo ako kay papa at malapad na ngumiti. "Don't ever let anyone break your soul princess, your too precious to be broke. You have to stand on your own two feet and fight. There are those who would give anything to see you fall, never give them the satisfaction, hold your head up high, put a smile on your face and stand your ground. Show them what you've got."

"Ang lakas ng loob magtapang wala ka naman kakampi." "I don't need anyone." matigas na sagot ni Anna sa kanila. Tumaas ang isang sulok ng labi ko. That's right Anna. You don't need anyone for you to fight back. Defend yourself. You have yourself. That's all you need.

Umiling lang siya, hindi man lang lumingon. Huminga ako nang malalim. “Bela, look at me.” Dahan-dahan siyang tumingin. Sandali lang, parang natatakot siyang magtagal, baka tuluyang bumigay. “It’s not wrong to defend yourself, especially when you feel that what they’re saying about you has gone too far.” “ However, every action has consequences. I hope you learn from this, control your emotions, and if you must strike back, do it so they can’t find fault with you.” dagdag ko.