Novel & Cerita Essay About What Is Love

I stopped talking to laugh. Yung kakasabi ko pa lang na lagi niya akong tinatarayan at tinititigan ng masama ay ginagawa na niya ngayon. Hinaplos ko ang kamay niya at ngumiti. "That's the reason why I love you so much. You are always true to yourself. Lagi mong pinapakita at sinasabi yung nasa loob mo. You are strong and you are an independent woman. I admire you for everything. I like your braveness in those times you are fighting with sadness and pain. I love everything about you. Your flaws, your weaknesses, your insecurities and your past. When I choose you, I already choose the whole you. Everything about you is important to me…" Napabuntong hininga ako at sinalubong ang tingin niya.

"Whoever might be the mother of it, whether I love her or not, I will fully commit myself para bumuo ng pamilya. Para sa anak ko." "Whether you love her or not? You're not a believer of love?" tanong kong hindi ko alam kung saan nanggaling. He smized. "Love is over-praised, I expected na hindi ka rin naniniwala doon because masyado kang matalino. Mali na ba 'ko?" Hindi ako nakasagot. "Human sees it so magical and enchanting. Nevertheless, it is just a repercussion of law of proximity. The same goes with the family, in the sense na sa ilang taon kayong tumira sa iisang bahay natututunan niyong mahalin ang isa't-isa. Love can be learned through time."

mabagal na ang pagkakasabi ko this time. "Jamara, usapang love iyon at hindi tong its na maglalapag ka lang ay tapos na. Hindi porke mahal nila ang isa't isa ay susugal na sila, hindi lang ang feelings ang kailangan sa isang relasyon. When it comes to love, hindi lang puso at nararamdaman ang paiiralin dapat ay utak at isip din. Palibhasa'y NBSB ka." Mapapangiti na sana ako sa sinabi niya nang dinagdag pa niya yung panghuli. Hindi naman kailangan sabihin 'yon ah. Napasimangot ako.

Isn't it funny to think that love can make you confuse? Confuse about the things on how did you ended up there? Confuse because you cannot determine anymore if you're still loving or your just craving some attention to someone. Love can make your world spin around. Love can make you a fool, but what love really do is to help you realize that loving yourself is much more important than the other things. Author's Pov:

If only love is not complicated, 'yung bang oras na makita mo ang tao ay masasabi mong siya na ang para sa'yo, 'yung bang may instruction na sasabihan ka kung paano mo siya mamahalin para hindi mo siya masaktan o mapakawalan at 'yung hindi mo na kailangan mag-isip na baka mawala siya sa'yo dahil siya na talaga ang para sa'yo, na hindi mo na kailangan pang makipaglaban sa iba dahil malalaman na nila na pag-aari mo na ang taong 'yun. But love is not like that. Love is filled with emotions and battles. 'Yung akala mo siya na pero hindi pa pala, 'yung nakipaglaban ka pero sa huli hindi mo rin pala makukuha at 'yung sigurado kana pero siya hindi pa pala.

aniya niya na kinailing ko. Nasa bus stop na kami at nag-aantay nalang ng bus na titigil. "Hindi yan love para sa akin. Ang love ay normal lang na nararamdamam sa ibang tao. Nagiging special love kapag nagagawa mong magsakripisyo, tanggapin at mahalin ang nakaraan niya. Na kahit anong hadlang, hindi ka sumusuko sakanya. Kaya mong magbago at manatili lagi sa tabi niya. Kasi ang love ay hindi lang nararamdaman, kundi nakikita rin."

Why everyone thought love is an interesting subject to talk about? "Concept about love? I don't think I'm rational enough to just rely on brains however I am not stupid enough either to rely on the heart. I guess I'm neither since I don't think love goes with concepts. I find love as the notion of your feeling with affections and your wits of thinking. Balance kumbaga," paliwanag niya sa dalagang nakatunganga sa kanya. "Para mo na ring sinabi na hindi ka naniniwala sa pag-ibig?" Namimilog ng husto ang mga mata nito. Parang bata.

I just want you to talk him regarding this issue. "We already did. Hindi lang naging maganda. I need to stop seeing him kahit ilang araw lang." I cannot remind him his feelings he never knew. I cannot teach him love, because it is self-discovery. Gaya kung papaano ko iyon natutunan. Love is making someone happy even if it is uncomfortable. Love is not demanding for equality, because who cares when the one you love is happy?

Kung tatanungin ako tungkol sa kahulugan ng pag-ibig, marahil ang isasagot ko sa taong nagtanong ay sarkastikong tawa lamang. Love is nothing more but a mere feeling. A feeling that might make you as a person or destroy you as an individual. Maraming tumitino dahil sa nagmamahal sila, pero marami rin ang nababaliw dahil sa pagmamahal na nararamdaman nila. Palagi kong nakikita ang pag-ibig sa negatibong bagay, kung magmamahal man ako sisiguraduhin ko kung kailan tama na ang panahon, sa tamang pagkakataon at sa tamang tao iyon.

Katulad na lang ngayon. “Well…” Nagkibit balikat siya at ngumiti sa kapatid. “I’ve seen people crying, begging, and doing anything in the name of love. I’ve heard stories how people break each other’s hearts. I’ve witnessed how people lie behind their lover’s back just to cheat. I… I think love’s already a myth nowadays.” “How do you define love?” tanong nito.