Is Virginity A Social Construct 소설 & 이야기

I heard hands clapping, natawa ako ng makita kung sino ang mga iyon, kasama na si Gina. "Quiva's right. You shouldn't mention infos like that Ms.Criselda. For some boys, it may attract them or turn them on when they discover that the girl they like or their girlfriend is still a virgin. But for some guys, infos like that may trigger their bad side, specially those people who use drugs or are psychos. Like what they shave said, your safety is at risk if you keep doing that. And I also want to tell you all, that... for some guys, virginity is not really important." Nicholas said. Kumabog ang ouso ko doon, lalo na noong sumulyap siya sandali sakin.

giit ni Mille na mukhang nagalit sa sinabi ni Sunny. I whizzed. "You don't know because you never tried it before. Get yourself a guy for you to understand it." "Virginity is so important to us. You can't just give it kahit na mahal na mahal mo siya. At hindi sagot ang pagkakaroon ng kasintahan sa isang katangahan, Sunny. That's so different." Mille really looks so pissed now. Sunny just pulled her trigger. Nalipat ang atensyon ko sa laptop ng may mag popped na dm through my I* account.

Hindi ko lang pinapansin pero sobrang lakas ng impact sa akin ng mga salitang iyon. Kapag paiba-iba ng lalaki, hindi na virgin? Ni hindi pa nga ako nahawakan kahit kailan sa baba. At saka, bakit ba sobrang big deal ng pagiging hindi na virgin? Hindi rin ako bayarang babae para masabihan na pokpok. Fuck girl? I am not that THIRSTY, duh? Nakakatawa lang kasi kapwa babae ko pa mismo ang humihila sa akin pababa. Women empowerment daw pero selective.

"I told you, wala na 'yon sa akin. Just forget it as what I did!" "Virginity is important to all woman. Kaya huwag mong idahilan sa akin na wala lang 'yon sa'yo. Because I know, hindi ka rin pinatahimik ng isipan mo simula nang mangyari 'yon sa ating dalawa."

"Gaga ka ba? you said, you still a virgin. Alam mo ba ang pinapasok mo? You'll let him get your virginity? tapos wala kayong nararamdaman sa isa't isa? just attraction!" "So, what's the problem of being a virgin? that's my descision. Im... I'm really attracted to him and he is always on my mind. Am i crazy?" she said, almost hysterically. "You are doomed." naiiling na sambit sa kaniya ni Easton. "Mens don't like virgin because they don't have experienced, at higit sa lahat ayaw nilang hinahabol ng babae na mga birhen nilang nakuha, kaya ayaw talaga nila sa mga birhen." napanguso naman siya at napapadiyak sa inis.

Bigla ring nanikip ang dibdib ko at hindi ko maipaliwanag ang inis na biglang sumulpot sa loob ko. He's just gentleman that's why he's still talking to me. Pero tulad nga ng sinabi ni Pia ay kalaunan makakalimot rin siya. I don't care. I started this so I won't blame him for anything. Wala siyang pananagutan sa akin. Almost eighty percent of women isn't virgin anymore. It's 21st century so it's fine. "I won't mind," bulong ko sabay bagsak ng baso kaya diretso itong mahulog dahilan para mabasag.

Follow :'> Author's note I've been writing for years and my characters always have standards. But now, I am breaking the stereotype of woman protagonists as "pure and virgins". Because raped victims deserve to be treated equally. They deserve to have stories too, they deserve an ideal guy too, without being judged for being not virgin anymore. I think that's more iconic, victims being influential, victims speaking up for other women. Help me spread the word, "raped" is not an adjective nor a description that should be used to make women feel less of who they are. No woman deserves to be identified as defiled or unmaiden. All women deserve to be loved equally without standards and restriction

Uminit pang lalo ang katawan ko sa tanong niyang 'yon sa akin. Hindi muna ako sumagot sa tanong niyang 'yon. Kinabahan ako. Pakiramdam ko pa ay kakawala na ang puso ko sa sobrang kaba. Naalala ko tuloy ang mga sinasabi nila na masakit raw makipagsex sa una lalo na kung virgin ka pa. Virgin pa nga ako at siguradong masasaktan ako nito kapag nagsimula na siya sa gagawin niya mayamaya. Napapamura ako sa isipan ko habang iniisip 'yon.

"I do not expect that you will tell something like that." "Oh, ano pala ang dapat kong sabihin? Thank you dahil—" "I am the first man in your life! Huwag kang umasta na parang wala lang 'yon, Aurora!" Giit nito na may galit sa boses niya. "So, what is the big deal, Damien? Hindi big deal sa akin ang nangyari at anong pakialam ko sa virginity ko? I can give it to whoever! Hindi naman siguro big deal na sa lalaking pinakasalan ko sa kapirasong papel ang nakakuha niyon sa akin. Look, Damien, I don't want to argue with you in that case. Please, do not argue me with about my virginity!" I said and then tuloyan na akong pumasok sa loob ng silid ko.

"Iyan ang common thing na naririnig ko sa mga bibig ng mga babae. Girls love romantic love stories, that's why they've stick on that belief. Siguro iniisip niyong wala ng lalaki ang seseryoso sa inyo 'pag nalaman na hindi na kayo V. What a joke!" "Tama ka nga. Girls are vulnerable. We are brave of course. But, virginity is really an important thing for us bilang babae," sagot ni Yana. Ibinaling niya ang tingin sa frame na nakita niya na nasa gilid ng flat screen TV. She thinks, it was a family picture. Montenegro big family.