Lover of Mine
I cut in, "she loves them. She's doing everything for them to have better lives. She will not agree with me like you, mama."
"See?" Mom pointed out. "When you love someone, you may have to make certain sacrifices. You may need to reorganize your priorities. You may need to revise your plans for the future. But loving someone doesn't mean surrendering all that makes you. Loving her does not require you to make her the center of your world."