Possessive In Relationship Meaning Novels & Stories

Parang May tahimik siyang mensaheng gustong ipaabot, na para bang sinasabi niyang sa kanya lang ako. May kung anong possessiveness sa paraan ng pagkakahawak niya sa akin. Isang uri ng pagka-territorial na hindi niya kailangang sabihin ng malakas upang maintindihan ko. At ang mas nakakainis pa, tila alam niyang naiintindihan at nararamdaman ko iyon. Kaya mas lalo niya pang idiniin ang kanyang kamay sa bewang ko.

Walang konektang tanong ko. I just figured out that in this relationship, we must both put an effort for this to work out. Hindi naman pwedeng puro siya na lang. This is a give and take relationship at hindi pwedeng ako na lang lagi ang tumatanggap. Minsan, kailangan ko ring magbigay. A smile escaped on my mouth when I saw how his forehead knotted with my question. Akala ko ay hindi niya iyon saaagutin ngunit sinagot niya...at hindi na ako nagulat sa sagot niya!

Ngumiti pa ito ng makahulugan sa kanya. " Yes, sweetheart. I don't care if people will see us. You are my beautiful girlfriend at proud ako sa lahat ng tao sa mundo na akin ka lang." He said possessively to her. Napakurap-kurap pa ang dalaga sa narinig. Huh, possessive perv! Napaka possessive naman nito kung ganoon. Pero kailangan niyang sakyan ang trip nito. Pumasok na ang magkasintahan sa bumukas na elevator.

Kung barya man lang ‘yon sa kaniya, still hindi na dapat niya pinaglalaanan pa nang oras ang ganoong bagay kung ang gusto lang talaga niya ay ang gawin namin ‘yon. Wala namang problema sa akin as long as we both like it, at wala siyang ibang aangkinin, habang may ganoon kaming relasyon. Hindi sa pagiging possessive, pero sadyang ayaw ko lang magkaroon ako ng sakit kung sakali.

“...I don't like other men touching what's mine. Or at least... touching my client.” Napalunok ako. Ang bilis ng tibok ng puso ko. Alam kong assistant-client at s*x tutor lang ang relationship namin, pero bakit parang totoo ang possessiveness na ipinapakita niya? Hindi nalang ako sumagot, hindi ko alam ang isasagot ko.

Pero sa tingin ko ay kailangan lang nilang mag-usap dahil ang pagiging possessive ay bunga ng sobrang pagmamahal. Alam ko dahil iyon ang nararamdaman ko para sa asawa ko. Mabilis akong magselos and base sa inakto ni Arnie nang makita niya kami ni Alodia ay halatang ganon din siya. But we talked about it at nalinawan naman ang lahat. “Hindi ka ba nasasakal?” Ayon at tinanong na niya. “Hindi ko malaman na possessive siya kung hindi mo pa sinabi eh. So hindi, hindi ako nasasakal.”

And Trevor only looks so free when he sings. The five of them make a good harmony together. Focus na focus sila sa kanilang ginagawa kaya. Nang ibalik ko ang tingin ko kay Trevor, napansin kong hanggang ngayon ay hindi pa rin niya pinuputol ang pagtitig niya sa akin. It felt so hot all of the sudden. But then I realized, Trevor and I are in a push-and-pull relationship. But I'm not going to settle in that kind of relationship. I want it clear as daylight. I want him to be mine.

Pagkatapos ng isang oras na intense pero productive discussion, tumingin siya sa akin at tumawa ng mahina. “You know, I used to think that being the boss meant I had to do everything myself… and maybe control everyone around me,” sabi niya. “But I’m realizing that power without trust is meaningless.” “Exactly,” sagot ko, feeling a spark of relief. “I never wanted to work under someone who thinks ownership is the same as partnership. I want to be respected as a colleague, not just an employee… or worse, a possession.” Ngumiti siya, this time full smile, sincere. “Good. Because I want partnership. Not ownership. Not control. Partnership.”

A relatioship is not about having a handsome boyfriend or having a beautiful girlfriend. It’s not about looking for a perfect person because there isn’t any perfect person on earth. It’s not about looking for a fair complexion or a rich person. Having a lot of money doesn’t mean that one has too much pure love. A relationship is about finding someone who respects you. Who cares about you in anyway he/she can afford. Who understands you. Who is proud of having you. Who appreciates you the way you are . Who loves you the way you are. Who is faithful to you.

A relationship means you come together to make each other better,... It's not all about you,... And it's not all about them,... It's all about the relationship,... Supporting them in theirdreams/visions just as much as you wouldexpect them to support you,... Make eachother better,... Challenge each other to go beyond the average and aspire to achieve all