Embrace Your Flaws Novels & Stories

Be with someone who can accept your flaws is totally amazing. Hindi lahat nang tao ay marunong tumanggap ng pagkakamali. Hindi lahat kayang mahalin ang mga kapintasan mo. Hindi rin lahat ang makakaintindi sa mga paliwanag mo. Hindi lahat papakinggan ang hinaing mo. Hindi lahat susundin ang gusto mo.

He bared his soul and let me see how weak he is. “Walang mali sayo, okay? Lahat tayo ay nagkakamali at hindi natin dapat kinikwestyon ang sarili natin kung anong mali o kung saan tayo nagkamali. It's natural to get attracted to someone else kahit na may mahal tayo, it’s human weakness and we are all vulnerable to that. You don’t have to doubt yourself, kahit ako ay gano’n din. Magkakamali tayo dahil tao lamang tayo, Niu. We are not gods, we’re not perfect.” I bit my lip, my heart pounded inside my chest. “Even I, had my fair share of weaknesses and mistakes. I'm not proud of it, but it was the best thing that ever happened in my entire life, and I did not regret committing that mistake...” I

tinapik-tapik niya ang pisngi ko kaya bumalik ang diwa ko. Napalunok ako nang napatingin ako sa malaki at maugat niyang mga kamay. Pinagpawisan ako sa mga naiisip. Naging mahalay ako bigla. “It's your fault! Don't touch me nga.” Inis kong nilayo ang kamay ko sa kanya dahil aalalayan niya pa akong makatayo. This is my second day here pero naii-stress na agad ako nang sobra-sobra.

We don’t need to change a person, instead we need to accept and appreciate what they put on the table. Don’t make your hope into something they’re not. If we love someone we just help them to find themselves too by letting them become what they truly are without judging why they act like that. We are wounded warriors in every aspect of our life. Let’s accept the fact and don’t complain about their weaknesses by putting a finger on them. Instead, let’s find our own mistakes and work for them in order for us to understand others too.

sagot pa nito. "Did we ask for your opinion?" I asked, getting pissed. "That's one of the reason whys students easily get bullied at school. Most of us tend to look at people's flaws, making fun of it, throwing insensitive comments and insults. Just because it doesn't fit your standard, means they're different than you. Our imperfections are normal because it's part of us. Let's just embraced it wholeheartedly." I looked at her with a straight face. "Ano'ng sabi mo?!" she raised her voice and I gave her an intense glare.

I'm crazy and so in love, gusto kong idagdag pero pinili kong itago muna iyon sa kanya. "Maybe. But give some credits to yourself. You are more than the godlike face and sinful body. So what kung may peklat ka sa likod? Walang taong perfect. Scars and flaws are what make us humans, human." Ibinaon ko sa buhok niya ang mga daliri. Naiiling na nag bend ito't walang sabi-sabing binuhat ako. Idineposito sa ibabaw ng counter top.

So this is what loving someone really feels like huh? It's like seeing all of their flaws, quirks, and frustrating habits, and learning to love those just as much as all the attractive things you first fell in love with. Because there is no perfect, and when we let go of our need for it, we can embrace the whole of someone. Loving someone means growing as individuals, and a couple.

May mga araw na matigas ang ulo ko. May mga araw na wala akong trabaho. Mahilig akong manalo sa argumento. Hindi ako marunong magluto. Hindi ako marunong sumayaw. Weiwei, huminto ka na. Hindi mo kailangan i-list lahat ng flaws mo. Kailangan mong malaman ang papasukin mo. Alam ko na. Mahal kita. Iyon lang ang mahalaga. Tumawa ako sa gitna ng pag-iyak.

"You made your entire day facing some obstacles using your wheelchair. I've been hiding myself in the bush. Sa mga oras na madadapa ka ay gusto kong alalayan at tulungan ka upang makabangon at harapin ang natitira pang pagsubok. Ngunit pinigilan ko ang sarili ko. Hindi ako dapat maging malambot para sa iyo. Gusto kong yakapin ka. Hagkan. At sabihing okay lang ang lahat ngunit alam ko ay mas lalo kang madidismaya. Iniisip mo rin na hinding-hindi na kita mamahalin o tatapunan nang tingin dahil ang pananaw mo sa sarili ay tuluyang nagbago nang makita mo ang putol na kanang binti. Pero, walang nagbago. Ako pa rin ito na mahal na mahal ka. The way that I loved you before I already accepted everyt

I let go of his reaction and decided to continue my explanation. "I'm also ready to accept all your flaws ad imperfection. Hindi madali, pero kakayanin ko. Your appearance is not enough to dislike you. Noong nalaman ko rin ang nangyari sa 'yo, galit na galit ako. How could someone cheat on you habang ako ay natatakot na baka may magawa akong ikasasakit mo?"